Long story short... I got this girl's number and got her really interested in me.

I guess I did a really good job, because somehow I got her to make me dinner and watch a movie at her place (I made it seem like her idea )...

My friends can't believe it because I was literally told I wouldn't be able to handle her (before I met her). I got her number and now she's willing to make me dinner on the 1st meet up! So now I'm the prize -

I've watched movies with my ex-girlfriends at their place before, so I'm no stranger to that. But they were all girlfriends...

What rules do y'all use for watching a movie at her place? I'm pretty good at diffusing awkward situations, but I don't know how to just jump into the mood of watching a movie on the couch while cuddling. Is there a routine to make it more comfortable and less awkward? Or do I just sit down next to her and slowly start cuddling?

How would y'all go about this situation?

--QB

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I was thinking about jumping on the couch and laying down saying, "This is my seat... I don't know where you're gonna sit though..."

I'm sure she'll laugh. I'll say, "Naaah, I'm just kidding. I guess you can sit next to me, but I don't want you trying to put any moves on me!"

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I don't know anything I plan I never do, I'm pretty situational. What do you guys think?

Any ideas on how to slowly ease into some kino without it being awkward? Any games or routines to do during the movie? I'm sure we'll both be thinking about everything else besides the movie....

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I literally just had this situation last weekend. Here's what I did...

Right off the bat I focused on removing all awkward tension by building a ton of comfort. Kept the mood light and playful by not taking myself to seriously, smiling, and doing light kino.

When she's making you dinner this is the time to do that. You can also break rapport to keep the interaction lively by teasing on her playfully. Offer to help out also and engage in a shared activity. Keep in mind though the goal is to create familiar meaningless kino...if you only hug her on the greet then never touch her until you want the kiss forget about it. Ways of doing this can be checking what she's doing when cooking and peeking over her shoulder while putting your hands on her waist or shoulder, having her knuckle (not massage) a spot on your back where there's a knot, tickling is always gold if she's ticklish, hip bumps if your next to her, any forms of grooming her that's socially acceptable (like removing an eyelash on her cheek).

From here you should both be in a fun carefree mood in time for the movie. Obviously sit down close to her, and if you can also whip out some alcohol it helps tremendously. I had my girl bust out the wine. Now while the movie is playing it's important to sporadically talk and joke about what's happening, you're NOT in a movie theater so don't allow long dead silence. The movie allows you not have to talk as much which helps you think but don't use it as a crutch...also a fun way to break rapport is when she talks say "shhhh...I'm watching" with a wink.

From here it's all about creating sexual tension which is essentially anticipation gradually. You have to be the aggressor though and make continuous small advances even if it might seem awkward, just keep in mind she wants you to as much as you do. What I first did was move my arm down resting it on top of hers. Then after a while began moving my fingers lightly brushing her hand and arm. I also sporadically withdrew my arm at times for a state break and would then put it back. From there I gradually made my voice quieter and quieter (under the guise of being absorbed in the movie) so that when we talked we were a little above whispering. This allowed me to get closer to her when I talked, you'll notice she mirrors how loud you are also. Then she leaned forward to pick up her wine glass again and I just rested my arm on the couch above her (you can have her lean forward for any reason though, like to get something or even check out your shoe real quick who cares). From her I gradually moved my arm down until it was resting on her and that's when you have to move quickly otherwise it could get awkward. Within a minute I teased her slightly and while laughing leaned in closer and kissed her.

From there her entire body language and energy changed. The result is pretty much always incredible because a huge tension is released once you first kiss, it signifies undeniable mutual attraction. From there I cuddled a bit, began sexual escalation and the clothes came off.

Hope this helps

Psych

Haha, that's classic... sounds something like I would say. Everything you said makes it seem like we're the same (no homo)

Thanks for the words... I agree kino has to come before the movie or else nothing is going to fall into place.

I've already established some kino with her from when I got her number... and I can tell she's really into me so I'm hoping things will go as smooth as when I first met her

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hahaha I'm sure you'll do great bro, best of luck!

give her a hug when you first meet her at the door, so the context of physical closeness is set right from the start

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Yeah she texted me and wants to make me dinner tomorrow night (Friday). I think she's got it pretty bad... I don't think a K-Close will be difficult at all, all I have to do is pretty much show up.

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a lay shouldn't be difficult, all you need to do is show up...

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Money.

Some new stuff I guess people can use:

I use this when I call a girl... no matter how many rings it takes for her to answer I say "Wow. It took you (#) of rings to answer... I'm gonna need you to answer it sooner next time I call ok?"
--She laughed really hard and loved it. (she answered surprisingly in 2 rings... pretty fast!)
--I did this also when I knocked on her door.

I brought her an apron and told her she had to wear it because only the greatest chefs can wear this apron...
--It gave me a chance for some kino putting it on her...

After dinner, she was putting the movie in and and layed out on the couch and said, "well this is where I'm sitting, I don't know where you'll be sitting..."
--I then gave her permission to sit next to me as she sat up (she laughed)

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The rest is up to your imagination.

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ill read all the responses later i was reading but i g2g to haha watch a movie with 2 girls (trust me its not like ur situation we r just friends)

um what i do is automatically sit down at as close as is comfortable THEN immediately move even closer and pinch her or touch her in some way

i g2g hope tht was helpful.

i start my kino early to set the pace/tone/mood and just standards of how i act n shit

dont put body parts off limits unnessisarily. i touch breasts ass and w.e. as much as a want based on what seems appropriate. u cant kiss on the face without earning it and u cant touch her pelvic region for any kind of stimulatory reason without earning it unless shes a freak in which case u have earned it by realizing that... hahaha