Just a question regarding whether or not there is anything implied to that phrase; "I'm tired, I'm gona head back home"

Let me just quickly put it into the context to which I was given it...

So i'm on holiday with about 8 of my friends, and about half way through (4 days in) we meet up with this other group of girls. A friend of mine does the job of opening them and so I just slide right in, nice n easy

So I focus on this one girl and we dance and flirt for the night, but I dont make a move, instead I give her my chain and tell her i'll have it back next time I see her.

Meet up next night, go to a club. We start grinding and she's pulling on the back of my hair, so I whisper in her "Do you wana kiss me?", she turns her head round (i'm behind her) and we french kiss twice in about ten mins. We head back and say our goodnights...

Next night, we just go to a bar, so no dancing, pretty much just chatting all night, in the taxi back she falls asleep on my shoulder, so i hold her and and kiss her on the forehead. We get out and sit a some cafe near our hotels, and she says to me "I'm tired, i think i'm gonna head back now."

So I walk her back and give her a kiss on the cheek goodnight, oh and btw her friends had decided to walk back with her aswell once they saw she was leaving, so it kinda mad me feel abit arkward in asking her to come back to my place instead...so i left it...

Now at the time I didn't even concider this as her being suggestive, but now i think about it it may well have been..

Have any of you guys experienced the same kinda scenario? how have you played it out?

Hey dude,

Sorry to say it, but it seems as if your window of opportunity closed on that second night. By the third night, she could have legitimately been tired, but if she was interested, or her "buying temperature" was higher, you would have been in there no doubt. Keep in mind tho, that window is still re-openable, if you follow the analogy.

How come you didn't close the deal after the club? You can't go from a high intensity venue with lots a stimulus, to a bar the next day and expect her to be in the same mood, or hold the same attitude towards you.

Basically, at the bar on night 3, you got "reset" and it was up to you to get her buying temperature back up/ recreate that sexual tension. With no real "move" made LJBF zone is a heartbeat away. ESPECIALLY if you were pandering to her "tiredness." I bet she was just hungover from the night before anyways, which isn't going to help your cause. Don't sweat it.

Try to take a step back from the situation if you feel things are starting to stray off course. Regroup Zack Morris style and switch up the game plan. Its painful to see yourself crashing and burning, but its more painful to see you self crashing and burning and not do anything to stop it.

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Hey thanks for the advice dude

I can see where your coming from when you mention how on day three things were 'reset'.

When I saw her again on day three things seemed alot more arkward than the night before, and tbh I blame myself for that, cause I was nervous about how she was gonna be (cause i knew i would have to build comfort all over again). Because of that my game took a bit of a slide at the start of the night, she actually asked me what was wrong, which couldn't have been a good sign :s.

As for not closing on the second night, well we didnt get back home from the club (Pacha, u might have heard of it:)) until 7 in the morning :s so we were all REALLY REALLY tired (it was a foam party and we were dancing on the podium for 5 hours constant lol)

Anyways, i'm heading down to where she lives at christmas, it was her friend that actually invited me down (i think her friend is interested in me more than her now tbfh, but her friend got with one of my others mates on hol, they had some fun in the shower)

So how would you go about this whole situation of meeting up again? you think it would be best to start afresh and build confidence/sexual tension all over again? Or should i focus on her friend instead???