ive been talking with this girl in one of my classes. we talk online and ive hung out with her a few times for an hour or so each, either studying together or just hanging out between classes. Last night I took her to my friends B-Day party to complete my 7 hours and try to show her I had a high social status, and it worked. I bought her back to my place and we started making out on the couch and then moved into my room. I used the DiCarlo escelation method and that worked out very nicely. It was time to pop that question so i asked her if she wanted me to get a condom. she responded "im not that kind of girl." I tried my best to do a freeze out, but when you have an HB8 ontop of you its kinda difficult. i told her that she was right, were moving way too fast and that i wanted to be respectful of her boundaries. she came back onto me and we started fooling around more but never got to have sex. my question is should i do a freeze out before asking the sex questoin or after?