Whadudp brotha?!?!
Ok, im gonna break this down for you.
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On Wednesday 27th August I had a Day Two with a HB9 Swedish Model whom I number closed in Jewel a couple of weeks ago. We had to meet early afternoon as she had a photo shoot to attend that evening, so we decide to meet up at Holborn Station at midday...Ever had one of those Day Two's where it was a complete feck-up? Well, this one was, so listen on and find out what happened!
Good job on the day two. Treat it as a learning experience rather than a fuck up.
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She arrived 30 minutes late, but at least she called me letting me know of her lateness and apologised. We headed to Coffee Republic close by for a nice chat. I purchased our coffee and we sat down upstairs close to the window. We finally got into a great conversation and everything seemed to be going well......
Sounds good so far....
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As I was holding my coffee, for some very strange reason I thought I spotted a stain on the side of my arm and as I twisted my arm to see it, the cup of coffee obviously spilled everywhere on me..
Laugh it off, its kind of funny. Show that the little things are not going to bug you.
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I cleaned up and we got back into chatting. She slowly moved her chair towards me and now her cup of coffee was closer to me than expected.
nice ioi's, so at this point she is kinda feeling you. reward her with some friendly kino
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Now, during this period I end up getting a text message from Peter saying, "How is your Day 2 going?" where I stupidly show her the message and she was wondering what the hell a Day 2 was, and then followed by two other text messages from Julia (another girl I number closed) and Kelly...Bloody forgot to put my phone on silence...
Make her work for the text. Neg her a bit like "OMG, aren't we lil miss nosey!" And do not show her the text. keep her wondering. Infact do not even look at the phone. Show that she is the important person right now and that the other people can wait for you attention.
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About 10 minutes after the last accident, I moved my arm towards her and I knocked her fecking cup of coffee onto her lap and her white dress gets stained.
Now this is funny!
At this point you really just have to laugh at yourself for dumping both yours and hers coffee. Just appologize sincerely once, and they laugh your ass off about it.
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By this stage, yes, my Game was pretty f**ked up. We get going and I managed to go back to her place.
The only reason your game is fucked up is because you think it is..... She has shown plenty of intrest and is even taking you back to her place. Your game is fine if you end up back at her place even after dumping coffee on her.
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We made out and as I tried to advance the seduction she stops and told me what I was dreading...
"I'm sorry, but you're a nice guy and I think it is best to remain friends".
At this point she is shit testing you. I was in a similar situation. The girl is straddling me on her bed, and tells me LJBF. She was trying to control the situation. So i remebered something ace_of_spades posted, and it was money. It was along the lines of this.....
"No. I can't promise to be just your friend. Friends don't put friends in boxes like that. What I can promise you though is that things won't escalate unless both of us are completely ready." (thanks ace, im sure i butchered that line
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Then i grabbed her by the ass and flipped her back on the bed. And continuted with my plan....
What I did was, I crashed her frame. Here she thought she was going to take control of the situation, and I reversed it on her. She didnt really know what to think, so she just went with it.
You could have even said.... " Sounds good to me, thats definetly the smart thing for us to do right now." and just go back to kissing her. Women do not use things like logic and common sense. If they did they would be men.
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I gave some excuse that I had to leave and meet some friends. Now, about an hour later, I receive a text from her saying, "are you ok?". I reply after 24 hours, "Yep, I'm ok. And yourself?". I have not received a text back (as expected), though I also have her added up on Myspace.
Leaving was a bad bad choice. You could have froze her out, or just been playful with her. Break rapport(talk to AFCAdam about this one) Because honestly.... she probably wanted you to stay, but you failed the shit test. She knows things are not ok. You took off like a spoilt little kid that didn't get the toy his mommy promised him. You should have immediately texted her within 20 minutes and let her know things were great. Not wait 24 hours. She saw your text pattern at the coffee shop, and knows that you taking 24 hours to get back to her that you were pretty upset about the situation.
I would be surprised if she ever texted you back. The text back to her was bad.... Just by reading it I can tell you are upset. Its just a cold text with no feeling. Instead something along the lines of "Yeah buttercup,Im great! We gotta meet up again soon, so I can dump soda on you next time. LOL"
Reference your fuck up with her and know its really not that bad.
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Ah well, HB9 Model Day 2 fecked up... :/
I have to admit that I was feeling pretty upset about it
Don't kick yourself too bad. There is plenty more positive you can take away from this date than you can negative.
EDIT: Do not go making shit up as an excuse for why you left. She knows better. Respect her intelligence along with her looks.
Good luck bro,
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