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There's this bar I go to close by my university. The dance floor is always bumpin' and the girls are always plentiful.
Having hot chicks grind you while you become semi erect behind them is always a good time. But what happens after that? Most often, the girls walk away after the dance and you don't see them for the rest of the night. What I want to know, is how to get the girl you're dancing with to go home with you.
I was grinding this hot chick last night. It was hot. And I wanted to take her back to my place so I could get inside her. But then, she eventually walked away with her friends. Should I have been more talkative during? Is there anything I could've done to get her to cling to me, and leave with me?
If you're dancing with a chick on the dance floor and it feels pretty good, what are some things you can do or say to get inside of her later? If anybody has any wisdom or suggestions on the subject, please throw them down.
Here's one such method:
When a girl is on the dance floor the chances are shes there to have a good time and they get easily bored of different people. This results in you really only having the time of one, maybe two songs to create that impression that will keep her around.
Assuming she's approached you, this will be because of pre-selection, leading the party or possible some kick ass dance moves. Therefore lets assume attraction. They've approached you so attraction is assumed, now the benefit of this is clear, but sometimes the downside is often overlooked. Shes approached you, shes danced with you and you've just gone along with the flow. So unless you take control you are the metaphorical lemon going along with the ride.
Lets assert some initial control by leading the dance instead of her just mindlessly grinding on you while you stand like that proverbial lemon(as enjoyable as that is). Grab her hand, get her to twirl or do a dance move and get her to copy you. Then before the end of a song, lead her off the dance floor , bridge it with a phrase, then just go into your normal game.
Keep in mind that without speaking to a girl they are unlikely to go any other venue with you, and its hard to talk on the dance floor, so at some point you are usually going to have to get her off it.
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