ok so my openings still suck. Iv gotten really decent with midgame and im getting stuck at seduction. this hb8t that works at hooters came to meet me and some freinds that were out for a beer. we all decided to go back to me and my roomates pad. i went with hb8 to her house first (she drove) so she can change into something comfortable. we get back to my place and we chill downstairs for a bit with my friends than we go off into my room and close the door. we talk. listen to music. smoke some pot. than she lays down on my bed like shes gonna goto sleep. i get on the laptop. im sitting on the bed. she starts tickling me. I put the laptop down and lays back next to her. but than i drew a blank. i didnt know what to do. her eyes were closed like she was gonna goto sleep but..than my friend knocked on the door. so i went down and drank with my friends and left her sleeping in my bed. in the morning we woke up cuddling. and i was doing some kino rubbing her back under her shirt and her belly. but nothing ever really came of it. help. am i gay?

You didnt need to do anything to close this. She was not asleep. Kiss her!

If any LMR, pull your laptop back out and continue there without a word

ok, here's what would have happened if it was me...

in retaliation for her tickling i would have grabbed a pillow and started a pillow fight. after a couple minutes of fun i'd get her pinned down on the bed, then lock eyes with her. if she doesn't break eye contact for 3s (count it in your head), go in for the kiss.
now you're on top of her making out, it should really just flow from here.
but it is common to get some more LMR when you go for the panties, that is when you just use freezeouts. she will usually reinitiate kino and kissing so just get in to it and try again.