Hey,
I am meeting up with a girl tonight in the evening time. We've kissed before, and she asked me would I like to meet tonight, so the 'date' is from her initiative. She's really hot and just my type.

Anyway, I think her and her friends will be going to a club tonight. I really don't want to go, because going to a club as part of a date sucks.

The last time we met we went straight to a club because she had arranged it with her friends and she invited me along. But the whole night I barely got to speak with her and there was nearly no chemistry between us.

So, I don't want the same to happen tonight. So, if she asks me to come along to the club with her after our date, what should I say? I don't really want to lie, but I really don't want to go to this club as I'd prefer to end the evening on a high note.

Make a decsion when/if she asks you. Don't overthink things like this. My take on this would have been to tell her that I'm busy and we should hang out some other time; or to just go to the club and take advantage of the social proof you get by walking in with some HBs.

you could say that a friend poped in town for the night and you have to go meet up with 'him and the rest of the gang' kind of thing, but it was great hanging out with her etc etc?...maybe lure her somewhere and k-close b4 you go if you can, bt not in front of her friends..

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Easy. Tell her to cook for you.

If you've kissed i would assume you have enough comfort for her to invite you to her place.

The other option is to wear clothes in which they wouldn't let you in the club. You sneaky bastard, you!