Hey Crew,

I'm new and just come out of 4 year one itis, it's so true one itis drives them away!

Anyway since reading about the PUA scene I analyzed all the stuff I have done when successfully picking up women before and after the 4 year one itits. Everything I have ever done that works is part of PUA 'law' and obviously done alot better by PUAs!

This is a variation on Styles 'do you want to kiss me' it has worked for me and a friend on at least 12 occasions (I first used it 10 years ago when I was 17!).

I'm not really up to speed on negs, routines etc but I'm ok at conversations and demonstrating interest while being aloof with targets. That seems to be the general goal

Ok here is my virgin post to the PUA scene!

Once you have established rapport and she is giving off plenty of IOI's, hey that’s the hard bit I know! You must get the target on their own and preferably away from public view, you pause conversation and glace at the targets lips, eyes etc. Then simply say.

'Can I kiss you'

Wait for the answer, it always been ‘yes’ for me, make sure the pause in conversation is relatively dramatic and lasts at least 5 seconds.

It works even better if the target has a drink in her hand, during the 'pause' in conversation grab the drink, put it on a table or the bar, (look away from her and where you're putting the drink, you will be nervous and if you drop it the moments gone) then do the eye lip stare and pop the question!

I hope the success rates stays at 100% for you all.

Please don't rush it, make sure you have plenty of IOI's and it should work. Let me know how you go.

Cheers,

Rhubarb

PS I have no idea what you should do if she says no! Sorry if this is already a well used technique, I just haven't seen it posted or used before.

FIELD REPORT

Used a variation of ‘can I kiss you’ two weeks ago.

A girl who is the friend of a mates girlfriend was at a party I was flirting with other girls and she was in the background looking good HB7.5.

I had only said hello to her and had been there about two hours! The chick I was talking to was HB9 but during the conversation I found out she was 17! Eeek! So I saw the HB 7.5 in her low cut top across the room and asked my mate for her digits and wrote her a text message.

'Meet me out the front I want to kiss you. Rhubarb.'

I got eye contact with her 5 minutes later she smiled and went flushed red, I made sure she saw me walk out of the front of the bar.

We talked for a bit out the front and I said, 'you just looked great tonight and I really wanted to kiss, just one one kiss no strings no expectations just one kiss, we can go back to being friends and never do this again just one kiss for the ages!' and I jumped her with a nice gentle pash.

Then gave her a high five and said I would meet her back in the bar and that I had to cross the street to the SPAM. She went back to the bar and I didn’t speak to her the rest of the night. We just glanced at each other occasionally and smiled!

Please let me know your thoughts and how this close may be improved. I'll be self indulgent and call it the 'Rhubarb Close' lol!

i think it will work with the changeing of views from eyes to mouth i will try it and find out:)




ps. i am new to this too so if i fail it might just not be the tech

I think you played it well, but that begging part and saying "just one kiss, we can go back and just be friends, but please please kiss me" wont work at most occasions.
Atleast if its confident chick who know what she wants.

Get your game tight cat.

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True about the beg, I didn't use a begging tone though I was telling her that was all it was going to be. I authentically didn't want anything more from her.

Thanks for the feedback I certainly won't do it again, must have gotten lucky on that occasion!

True there,,, its good, never fails me, but for those (like me) who aren't quite as good looking as our friend Rhubarb, the remainder of the 'do you want to kiss me routine' is:
If she says no, you say "hey, I didn't say you could, it just looked like you had something on your mind"
and, If she says maybe, you kiss her.
Simple

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Lads I ain't good looking! 6'3'' 85kg and a nose the size of a small African country!

I've have had a habit of asking girls if I could kiss them before i did it. Mostly it works, perhaps because they think it's a funny thing to ask.

I few weeks ago I was at a party where I was taling really good good with blond HB 8. I mean, really good.
But when I asked her to kiss her I found out that she was very much in love with some other guy, so no luck there...
I should have found out about that earlier; I had used most of the evening on her...

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haha, the last time i did this, the hb responded with " thats the 1st time someone has asked me that" to which i replied, " the question still stands

she didnt say a word, so i took the risk of kissing her neway. thank god she kissed back
regards
mojoJojo
ps. i need more technology

This is a testament to the phrase, 'the PUA must be the exception to the rule." No girl would ever expect a guy to express so openly his desire to kiss her and with such great confidence. Applause for your willingness to lay it all out there and go for gold. A cool twist you could put on this would be to ask the girl early on in the conversation if you can kiss her. Before you receive lots of IOIs or anything. If she says yes then great, kiss her. But if she says no, the more likely response if you've only be talking for a few minutes, be prepared to confidently dig your way out of what seems like an AFC dive of desparation. If you can maintain her interest while remaining confident in tone and body language, you will almost certainly be able to pull off a successfull kiss close after ten more minutes or so of conversation.

smooth^^
but dno about the highfive... I'l try it and get you feedback (atleast i hope I will )

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