I am a college student, and because my college is small (around 1500 students), you usually meet the same people at the parties (even though you are in different social circles). I am on of the better looking guys in my college, so at parties I always flirt with girls, and I mostly get what I want Unfortunately, I have a bad rep in my school (for various reasons)

So there is one girl (smoking hot) who always checks me out in the college Dining Hall. She has just broken up with her boyfriend and she is a senior. It is an end of the academic year, which means that this is my last chance to land her (I did not know know she was graduating or else I would have approached her). Next Saturday there is a formal dance, an excellent opportunity for me to approach her.

My question is bit AFC (I just really want to land her; partly to show my friends how awesome I am , but primarily to taste her).

How do I approach her (I am pretty sure she knows that I am an asshole ) without looking like I just want to get laid? She is going to be my main target that night, so I am going to look freaking awesome (nice suit, haircut, cologne). I was thinking being blunt like : "Hi, my name is ....... I noticed how our eyes met many times over the last few weeks? Would you like to dance? etc" I am just afraid it is so cliche ("let's get laid"). What do you guys think?

Any suggestions are welcome.

"Im one of the better looking guys".

Well,at least you dont have insecurity issues about looks,so you're half way home already.

There's no such thing as a bad rep',as far as being an asshole.

Women love assholes.She knows your rep',yet she still checcs you out.

So she's gameable.

Since she'd recently broken up with her bf,the last thing she wants right now is another bf.

So you have to be careful to not give her bf vibes.

Approach:Im an indirect gamer but I think your opener is cool for direct gamers.

I would omit the,"hi my name is" line.

Just throw you opener;no need for an introduction.

Just speak your mind i.e.open!

And definitely have a playful-light vibe.

If you you use the above line with a deep-felt tone,she may get weirded out.

The dance part is a no-no!!

That's not how you go for a dance.Never ask!!

Engage in a bit of fluff talk.

So,open,banter with her,have follow up routine(opner)that perhap DHV's you.

Then after she's warmed u to you,take her by her hand and lead her to dance.

Never ask if you can dance with her.

Say,"Let's dance",then lead her to dance or just start dancing with her on the spot.

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