i know how i should approach but when i do i appear nervous WTF?? maybe its my breathing or somethihng... but how do i appear comfortable o the approach?

Well obviously the best thing is to BE confident. To do that you need to get your inner game right. A really good source for that is David DeAngelo, he's written a lot about it. Check his mailbag on mASF, it's loaded with good stuff.

I also read a great tip on here the other day. Practice your approaches on older women. They're just as responsive as younger women, and you won't have the same approach anxiety. I don't remember who wrote it, so if it was you, chime in please.

Also, I'm a big fan of fake it till you make it. Before you go sarging picture who you want to be and what they would do in each situation, then do that. Act confident even if you aren't. After each approach it'll be less acting and more you until you are who you want to be.

EDIT: Just realize I missed a question. Confidence is projected mainly through BL, so keep good posture, lean back a little when you're talking, dont play with your hands, keep eye contact throughout and SMILE.

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