I am recently divorced (separated actually, my wife cheated on me) after 15 years, so I have been out of the game for a while. I started working at a new location for my company about 8 months ago. I noticed a girl who works in a different department right away and noticed she was looking at me too off and on. We would be at the company picnic for instance and I would look over and she was staring at me. So time went by, I would make a funny remark, she would laugh and so on. For instance one day I had a question on an order and found a solution that would make it easier for her to deal with these orders form now on. I jokingly said "Now I won't have an excuse to see you as much", she laughed and said "aww, you can still come visit me".
I have noticed when we talk she does blush. But I am so attracted to her I have difficulty talking to her. She may feel the same way, I don't know.
She does have a boyfriend, from what I can gather, off and on. RIght now I think she may be living with him. We are friends on Facebook (my idea, btw). ANd I noticed she mentioned they both woke up at night etc… Her fish had died, the cat ate it..
Anyway, you can guess the question.
What should I do at this point? I feel like I should just keep working at this slowly but I feel I may miss an opportunity if I do.
What else can I do to feel this out? Or should I leave it alone?
Or should I simply get more aggressive and if so, how do I overcome this nervous feeling around her?

Firstly please don't talk my opinion or anyone elses opinion as gossip but at least read them to see what fits with you best:

Personally I had a crush on this girl at work aswell but, she was single and the only thing that was honestly holding me back was the simple fact "I worked with her"

I didn't want to do something risky like make a move, say the wrong thing or just simple grab her ass and find myself going to work and feeling completely awkward. And the thing is she liked me too. We got close to something happening but the realisation that the work environment would be awkward if we didn't end up together was enough to stop it from ever happening.

So I suggest you really look at how important the girl is in comparsion to your job. ( do you really need your job or do you really need this girl) personally I would choose the job.

And secondly, dude she is taken, you don't really wanna be that guy. Two wrongs don't make a right.

Your in a sticky emotion situation but use your better judgement brother.

My suggestion is try more day game and direct approach to women you see during the day. and coffee shops too bumping into sexy waitresses at coffee places is always cool.

PS this is only my opinion, your still gonna do what is right by you. Stay positive and Good luck.

I was thinking along the lines of leaving it alone, as you said she is taken. But there is definitely an attraction there. I'll let it go, not because I fear losing my job, but because of the fact she is dating some guy. I'll just wait it out and keep going out with other people once in a while. Thanks for your opinion, it's always good to bounce these things off of someone else..

I am actually in this situation right now, but I've already slept with the girl plenty of times.

I sounds like things are going well for you. The trick to getting with girls from work - Happy hours. Sounds clique, but its the best way and works every time.

If she is actually interested and will to get involved, happy hours are the best place to do. Changing locations, getting your friends from work around, and drinks in is the tri-fecta for pulling it off.

Its been like a 6 months from the first time me and the girl had sex and things are still cool between us.

What are you looking for tho? Are you looking for a hook up or a relationship? If hookup, keep it at that and just be cool. Relationships could be a bit tougher.

1. put together a happy hour and invite more that just her, and tell her to invite friends so she is comfortable.
2. take things extremely slow at work.

Good Luck and I would like to hear how things go!

i think you should do the afterhour idea. i was sleeping with someone i worked with who was living with her boyfriend. its tons of fun cause you dont need to listen to her problems or take her on dates just go get drinks and have fun. if your thinking of a relationship then your pretty stupid cause this chick will cheat on her b/f for you and then on you for some other dude. g/l bro i say go for a close.

easy. grow balls.

yeah man. ask her out period. dude tell her youre going for lunch or something or after work youre going to somewhere or what time does she get out youll take her somewhere.

once you do then its easy to escalte her physically. i would not advise to escalate her physically unless you wanna risk your job over some chick.

also get this mentality. shes leaving her boyfriend for you. period. you dont stop because she says shes got a boyfriend.

also its ok to be super nervous shitting. bricks just do this

1.ask her out
2.once out. escalate her physically BOOM persist. even if she gives verbal/physical resistance.

its time to stop your touching ONLY if she walks away from you. then youre done and just take comfort in the fact that she was never interested in you.

besides that "laughing at your jokes" people do that all the time. especially girls. think of how fucking awkward it would be if you tried to be funny and nobody laughed. shes trying to avoid that awkward moment. duh! or she likes you. you cannot know for sure until you have physically escalated her and see if she ran away or stayed.

You work with her and sit close. This is a disaster waiting to happen.
As a PUA it is about a lifestyle and not just getting laid. Part of this lifestyle includes holding down a job with a steady income and the ability to make new friends.
It is great that the opposite sex is paying attention to you and yeah you could probably bag this chick...but what happens next? It could end up being happily ever after and I am not ruling that out...
It could also end up very awkward at work if things turn sour with you or with her and her current boyfriend. The other option and in my opinion the best is make a new friend. You just moved to a new city and just got out of a marriage. What you need are some new friends and a good pivot. There is nothing wrong with having a good female friend and keeping it in the friend zone. I'm probably going to get some crap for saying this but if you have never relocated to a new city you DO NOT have any grounds to say I am wrong whatsoever.
I relocated with my employer to a new city half way across the country so I understand part of what is going on in your life. Right now more important than getting notches on the belt is for you to get a group of good friends and for many reasons. First and most important for companionship, mental health, and for social proof. Become friends with this girl first. Maybe it will lead into something but if it doesn't who cares. Remember that this girl has friends and you have then chance of meeting many women through her and maybe even through her boyfriend.
The beauty of being a PUA is you get to understand the concept of being selective aka picky. Remember that this girl shows interest and that means that other girls do and will too. Just because you can do something doesn't mean that you always should and often by holding restraint you will end up being farther ahead in the long run.
Ok let the judging begin