some weekends my sister and I meet up for lunch, we have gone to this thai-lunch place across the street from her job two times now, and there's a suuper cute waitress there. My sister is older than me and she's the only one of us with a job so she has paid when we've been there, and she's also the one ordering so the waitress havent even heard me say a word yet..

so that's where I am right now. I was thinking I should go there without my sister sometime what would be a good opener in that situation?

when we left I thought of going back and telling her "hey, i think i forgot your number here" but i think I did right by not doing that ?:P

shes a hired gun so you gotta be tight with the game. dont let her know that the girl you are with is your sister. maybe even get your sister to bring another girl so you are already preselected and DHV spikes. biggest thing is when you are talking to her get the conversation away from her work as fast as possible. search hired guns to learn the best way to engage her
feneix2012

How about this. How about you get a job, go to lunch with your sister DHV you treat the woman in your family good, and you pay for their lunch

I mean COMMON"!

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"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel"

I would not advise going by yourself. Going with your sister is better. I would also try to go at times when there isn't a rush (like noon) so she can spend more time at your table and you can get in more conversation.

Good luck.

take a small object, doesnt matter what it is, it could be a sugar packet a guitar pick anything will do. then after youve built some attraction with her and maybe even gotten her number put the object in her apron pocket or hand it to her and say.

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This ain't the best gambit for amateurs that can't build rapport.
If you aren't on the same wavelength with her and clumsily write your number and name on a sugar packet (btw, thats harder than it sounds, esp if it's a full packet) then everytime she sees a sugar packet she will be reminded of this buffoon who tried to hit on her.

This method is called anchoring, it's also useful to learn to anchor emotions with more than objects, i.e., words.

A good gambit, but I would suggest practicing elsewhere before trying on your target (unless you don't give a shit.. and you shouldn't)