For those of you who have difficulty 'approaching' women, how many of you can:

Type up 5 openers right now? Can you write up 5 'routines' right now? Can you write up 3 closes? Doesn't matter if it's cans, made up, bad, good, true stories, something your grandpa told you, stuff you remember from this forum, etc . . . what can you type up right away, right now in the privacy of your own home without brain freeze?

I'm hoping that this poll will prove to be helpful for us so be as honest as you can. And if you think you can type up these things, go ahead and try it first.

dont know if you meant type up on here but here is my go;

openers
-hi, im Shah
-Hey a girl on facebook just posted "this date is going badly", isnt that weird or do most girls wish they could do that?
-hey consider this a real life friend request
-hey youre cute and i wanted to speak to you
-Do you girls find the rockstar David Bowie hot? because my friend swears he's one of the hottest guys in the world and she's like 18. (i thought of saying sean connery instead)

routines
C smile routine
Rings routine
- these are the only decent ones i know but i feel weird doing routines with girls and i wouldnt know how to write my own one.

closes

number close - hey give me your number so we can do >insert whatever you were talking about or whatever<

k-close - *get closer, seductive EC, triangular gazing*

number close - hey give me your number *casually during the interaction and carry on with whatever you or she was saying.

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Nope can't do it.

Will come back when I can.

If you're serious about approaching this should really be your 'bread and butter.'

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Routines are gay.

Openers, yeah I have

Daytime - 1 set: loads of em (funny, cute, gorgeous, I'm late), 2+set, 2-set girl-boy, 2-set girl-mum

Night - 2+Set, 2+ mixed set, lone wolf 9/10, 2+set of 9/10s


Close: I have 1 close I use most times - stick my fucking dick in her...

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That's a really good exercise and I'm currently not able to do it.

Yet, I'm getting way better at it thanks to your advice Kasabi: I have a small notepad where I write down openers (exercise from the Bolognese Thread).

I also do it for KINO too. Everytime I have an interaction, I think about it after and write some KINO I could have done.

It's all about practice and getting used to it. Writing down these definitely helps since it allows you to project. It makes it easy to get used to it.

In the end, PUA is all about getting used to the Game. The Game is a HABIT.

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Some openers;

"Hi what's up! I saw you over there and just felt the urge to talk to you. I'm ****"
"Hey.. I got a question (pauze) do you like smiling guys?"
"Hi.. I've been having a discussion with my friend a few minutes ago - what is the most amazing cartoon figure. We got stuck on pretty much the same ones, so I want your opinion. Mickey Mouse or Donald Duck?"
--> Funny one, cus I can imitate them both.

"Omg, did you see that? Superman just came by.. damn he's my hero - yours too?
"Hi, I saw you from over the street and just had to come say that I think your cute. I'm ****"
"Hey, have you ever felt like you met somebody.. who is beautiful, has long cute hair, twinkles in her eyes and walks really funny?"
She response "no" or "what" or "huh"?
My response; if no - "Damn.. you need to look more in the mirror"
if "what" or "huh" - "Apparently you have but I forgot to mention she has bad hearing too"

Meh - not hard.

Cheers!

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Openers:

-What do you think about tattoos
-Hey which cologne smells better
-Hey do you know where Starbucks is
-JGF opener
-Would you mind your boyfriend having stripper at his batchleor party

Routines:

-How many 9 exist between 1 and 100
-Strawberry field routine
-The cube
-Lying gmae
-5 question game

Closes [kiss]:

-On a scale of 1 to a 10 how good of a kisser sre you [kiss]
-Come here [kiss]
-Come here I'm gonna show you something cool [kiss]


OK I did it, easily without freezing, but behind the computer it is soooooo easy, when I come up to a girl I freeze big time And I don't know why, because I can just go thru all of the openers, routines right now in my head, but in field it's blank I'll get better eventually

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Opener:

- Hey, real quick who do you think lies more, men or women?

- I saw you over there and I think you're cute so I had to come over and say hi.

- Hey do you think guys who like cats more than dogs are gay?

Close:

- Alright, I gotta get going but you seem pretty cool. Let's hang out sometime. (Then she'll give you her number.)

Which one of you knuckleheads WHO DO NOT HAVE AA partook in the poll?

Secondly, the idea isn't to write up the 'topics'. The idea is to LEARN HOW to write stuff down freely and quickly JUST as if you were conversing with somebody. If I asked any one of you to write down how you would go about ordering coffee and a doughnut, could you do it? Sure:

"Hi, I'd like a medium black and a Boston Kreme. Thanks. No, I ordered a medium. Right. Thanks so much. Nothing like a hot cup of coffee on a freezing day Hey? Life saver . . . blah, blah, blah . . How much do I owe you?" (This probably took me 15 seconds to write)

^Is anybody curious whether I get nervous over ordering up a cup of coffee?

"My God, I swear untangling that stuff is like trying to fix a messed up fishing reel. . . that's a fine technique but at that rate, you're going to be listening to music in . . . about an hour."

^This took me about 10 seconds to write; I'm going from memory. It probably took me less than 10 seconds to say the whole thing the first time around when I saw a girl fumbling around with her earphones. If pressed to do it, I could probably write several pages of this crap without ever lifting the pen off of the paper for any longer than a few seconds at a time. These things need to be on the tip of your tongue and on your finger tips, not buried deep in your head where it isn't accessible.

blondguy, I've read enough of your posts to know that everything that you do between open and close are in fact, ROUTINES. If your definition of "routine" is different than the way it's understood by everybody else in the World, you should specify.

How so?

My openers are somewhat scripted, and then I usually do a couple of jokey cold reads at the beginning. Everything else is just getting to know them, joking around a bit, escalating, and so forth. No interaction is ever the same and I don't do any

kino routines (e.g. thumb war)
comfort building routines (e.g. the cube)
hypnotic seduction routines (e.g. the rollercoaster)

at all.

The only "routine" I might be accused of using is playing the question game, but my questions are never the same so not even that is really a routine in the classical sense (i.e. a script you do basically the same way every time).

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Cool...but WHERE are your five openers? Details...Details...Details

My five openers just straight from memory.
1. Wow... Is it always this busy in here? Hi I'm ________.
2. [Girl reading book at the bus-stop] Wow... interesting book? You must be hooked you haven't looked up yet and this guy across the road almost got run over... Don't tell me, it's not Twilight is it?
3. Hey you guys been busy today... I've been shopping around for a pair of jeans just like this but couldn't find them anywhere.
4. [Girl doing survey in town] Hi ____. You know your sales technique kinda sucks. Now try and sell it to me like you mean it and I'll give you a few pointers! haha.
5. Hey do you know where ______ is, I've been going around in circles for ages.

Routines to follow...

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Unless you're sitting at home trying to figure out DIFFERENT WAYS to do things every day, there's no way that you don't follow certain patterns in your routines. How many different ways do you know to 'get to know them better'? Do you walk around with a joke book so you can fire off a different joke every time? If you've experienced success, then at this point you are probably only subconsciously repeating certain concepts and aspects of your game. You know when it's time to escalate. You know when it's time to joke around. You know when it's time to get serious . . .

Just accept it and identify and name your routines. Write them down.

1. You'll improve your own game.
2. You'll be better able to communicate it to others.

Sure, there's a lot of gay routines out there. You don't have to do them.

Openers:

- Hi, how are you doing im Rui
- One question, do i look gay? Because this guy just gave me an eyeblink
- Quick question everyone, do you also think black clothing and dark blue cothing dont match?
- Me and my friends are curious about something, whats the worst line a guy has ever thrown at you?
- Do i look like a drug dealer? Or do i look like i do drugs? I've been offered drugs twice tonight when none of my friends were.. what do oyu think about that?


Routines
- Cube reading
- 5 question game
- ESP mind reading

Closes
- I gotta go now but i really want to talk to you, give me your number and we could meet up
- I have this really shy friend who wants to go out with you but he's too shy to ask for your number, can you help me out? (Smile with a c&f attitude, so she knows that's YOU who you're talking about)
- Whats youre facebook? Here's mine, look me up (not sure about this one, being expecting for a girl to add me/contact me is not so reliable)
- I really enjoyed talkin to you, we should meet up, here's my number (bla bla bla) give me yours
- So when i go to you can come along if you want. Give me your number and i'll sms you

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Openers
- hi, I need your female opinion on this
- did you just tap my shoulder?
- to bad I'm not single, 'couse you are so my type.
- you suck!(mystery/style)
- hi, are you any good at receiving compliments?

Routines
- tell me one truth and one lie about yourself, and I'm going to guess wich is a lie
- if you could be whatever you wanted, what would it be?
- 5 lie game (style)
- what do you find attractive in women?
- The race of the three mice(style)

Closes
- K-close: What would be the first thing you'd say after we kissed? "...". Lets find out.
- F-close: I'm sorry, I'm not letting you go home alone tonight.
- N-close: You go out much? Hey, you should give me your number I'll show you some awesome clubs/parties/bars.