Hey guys, how are ya?

Ok....my second post here......lets start:


1. One of the best ways to start a talk is to be freindly right? I always have this bad feeling that most of the time prevents me from getting girls. This is the feeling/what I think in my mind: "Ah, If I become friendly to her, everyones gonna think that I like her!" Im at high schoo btw. Another reason is because im quite a qutie boy lol meaning if i talk or get close to a girl, EVERYONE is going to think that I like <insert the girl's name here>.

Any opinion guys....?

2. Lets say Ive succeded in talking with a girl, and the girl decides to talk with me.Nice. THen what do I do if we both have nothing to talk about? If i try really hard then its gonna look that im desperate. I dont wanna look like that.

3. Is it true that girls like being teased? Like i mean: do naughty stuff like tickling here, punching her (JUST FOR FUN/SOFTLY), etc etc.?



Well thats all i can think of at the moment. I hope u guys dont mind if theres more questions coming up!

Thanks all!

you need to develop routines so that those awkward silences dont occur. look in the routine subforum and ask about some there.

And girls like being teased by negs and stuff. its called cocky funny.

Cool, a post I can actually help with.

For number one, you gotta be more talkative. Talk to everyone, and so when you talk to girls, it is just a casual talk. Just start talking, and don't start. By the next day, it is normal for you.

2, I believe got covered really well.

And for three, yeah they love it. I NEVER did kino before I found out about this stuff. I tried it the very next day, and it was totally natural looking/feeling. NEGs are great too. Make sure it is playful and not insulting though. A NEG is a playful comment.

I'm in highschool btw, so that's my source.

Read some of the material prescribed on the site that you will find if you search "books". There are tons of them and tons of different schools of thought, but you need to build up some knowledge about game and understand what is going on, because you don't understand the basics, or you wouldn't have asked those questions as they are the first things addressed by most MPUAs. I recommend The Game as an intro into the community and it will let you decide what school of thought works best for you, whether it be Cocky & Funny, or Juggler Method (which is just be yourself and use your strong points to advantage), Venusian Arts/Mystery Method.

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What does NEG stand for?

Ok few more questions:

I sometimes want to be funny/friendly to girls, but if they think Im impolite, wut should i do? I just want to be funny/friendly....

More questions coming up........cmon people, all the MPUA