Hey guys. I've been in pickup community couple of years now, i have read tons of stuff, really.. But i never have had the courage to go up to a women and just start talking (When im not drunk) But lately i doesnt seems to give shit. Ive started to think things in a different way, and it may help YOU to get a different aspect of how to approach women and just be yourself.

Let me start of with telling you there is ALOT of different types of women who needs to be approached differently. So.. Lets say you open a girl with c/f the party girl will love it! You're a tease to her. Keep building the atraction that way. But what about the women who are out looking for the future husband? Same approach? Hell no.. That girl are more likely to take c/f the wrong way. With this kind of girl, i would difinitely use a direct opener, even with a geninique compliment, they get so flattered! And the guards are down, and then start a conversation. These girls usally stick with one or two topics at a time, whereass partygirl like to have many different topics going.

And if you get rejected, just know, its wasnt YOU, you just used the wrong approach to that KIND of women!

Make it a challenge to figure out which girl is who from watching their body languguas. And with time you will know wrether to use direct or indirect opener. Women can sense if you KNOW them, and its a huge turn on for her!


How can she know?

Easy.. Whats the biggest difference between men and women? Jep, you got it right! Its empathy!


One example.

Women when having a child, they KNOW when their child need something, they can sense it. Men just can't. What about friends? If one of your friend had some problems, how would YOU react as a man? Yeaa.. You feel sorry for him, but you wouldnt start crying and cursing inside, you would try to figure out a solution(I know I would) However a women, she will go into her friends state, and feel how shes feeling and will cope with this a different way!

So, where am i going with this?

Women can sense if youre full of crap, and if you got hidden agendas, she will know.


But women can also sense if you KNOW them better than themselfes! And thats again.. a HUGE turn on! Women will start approaching you, when you start to be good at judging their personality!

So go out there, watch what their bodys a telling you!

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