Hey all ive been sarging for years but i cant seem to get any better, i dont get any IOIs from my eye contact and smiles probably because im not a young lad around 4-8 years older than the majority of girls in the venues, i dress well and ive spent dollars and time on game, dvds seminars, books,mp3s etc etc so it frustrates me.
My conclusion is that I need to be more agressive/selffish in my game as in approaching and escalating as i think i must still show a little bit of niceness still, sometimes i cant even pick a target because i dont want to offend the other girl, I think im fooled to think a fun safe conversation is getting me somewhere when it always goes nowhere either i get a number or a friend or they politely exit.
My wing disagrees he says we will get there through social circle game but he is also ex-nice and had a oneitis in the past aswell but we are building a social circle game my only concern is that through social circle i will eventually meet someone to have a relationship with instead of overcoming my failure with direct cold approach game and it may come back and bite me through needyness down the track.
Anyone managed to and a little Agression to their game without becomeing cocky,arrogant or sleezy from it and how?.Or am i barking up the wrong tree and anyone trying to game younger girls struggles, I really dont want to have to go to the hookers to get laid but ive thought about it a few times haha..
Thanks for reading..

Ok its lame but i'll try answer my own post or it might not happen just like how my game has been, waiting for the safest sets and not closing.
I think for me to crack club game I need to act faster and to operate from an assertive 'fuk em' type mindset fuk em if they blow me out but fuk em literally if they dont and get rid of the i dont want to blow it mindset, the reason is the SPAM is agressive itself its not really the place for mr relaxed friendly quality to get noticed with his great clothing,posture,confidence without a thicker skin in the form of drive, assertiveness in escalation/ ejection and doing the numbers and not wasting time on non interested girls.
Im still going to be a fun friendly guy but with an assertive i know what i want and i wont fuk around mindset.
Im off to sarge.peace..