I know this probably comes up a lot so Im gonna ask it for a specific kind of place but in general for all the girls there. Last night I went to a new club I never tried before.

In my city there are a lot of target rich club and most of the girls in there are gorgeous. Problem is that they are loud and most people are on the Dancefloor (not exactly the best place to spit game).

I consider myself a good-looking guy and I also dress well but most of the guys there are also just like that so I dont really stand out. There is usualy slightly more guys as well (like a 60-40% ratio) so the girls are spoiled for choice. A lot of them tend to also form those tight inward facing circles on the df that girls always seem to do.

Most guys in there try the whole awkward, indirect, slowly dancing up to a group of girls from behind approach. I did see quite a few instances where the guys were k-closing in there, idk if that was with girls they just picked up or if they pre-gamed them at another venue.

I guess I just dont know how to approach gaming at a venue like this, I am keen to learn though. Im not shy, i would do anything I just dont know what to do. Is there any general advice? and is there any reading material on how to (in general) game girls in loud places.

I have the same problem.

It's like in these places my PU knowledge is useless.

Any ideas?

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"Their compliance is,
'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

I'm by no means an expert but from what I have learned,
Loud clubs, Fesitvals and Concerts etc. are a much less verbal game.
KINO and Body Language are your best friends here.

Here's a few tips,

1) Confidence & Status

You really need to walk into a place and convey "I am the pimp daddy of this joint", you have to have a bit of self-belief and a feeling of high status. Don't stand in the corner with your arms folded or fidget with your eyes darting around the room nervously!

Search for Alpha Male Body Language Tips on Google if your struggling.

2) Be Happy & have fun

I can't stress this enough, when I broke up with my gf I went out depressed and got no where. Alcohol furthers the depression so I would recommend you go easy on it if you think you will hit a downer. Personally I'd avoid it completely so that you can think quickly and be in control.

Have you ever seen a guy in the club and you can tell that he's not having a good time, he is usually dancing by himself and everybody seems to move away from him DO NOT be this guy!

3) Show your true colours & go after the girls you want

Don't be afraid to go apeshit on the dancefloor if a song you enjoy comes on, remember you are here to have fun. Don't try to copy others or impress people just focus on having fun. Show a bit of sexuality and feel sexy!

Also DO NOT forget your goal, go after the girls you find attractive with passion and courage. At the end of the day the main reason most guys don't get laid is because they don't try, others try to hard but most do not try at all.

Alpha lion covered the main points... Richard La Ruina's done stuff on dancefloor game, which you might want to look up. The key points being to differentiate yourself from most guys there.... dont be the guys standing around girls watching them dance, act like your enjoying yourself... because you should be enjoying yourself.
I find its a lot easier to get girls coming up to you if your with a good group of friends, maybe a couple of decent looking girls within your group that you can use as pivots. As you can bounce of their energy. Whereas if your on your own or with just 1 wing, you look a bit more threatening to girls.
I think success can depend a lot on what kind of music is playing, if im talking to (or if its loud - dancing with) a girl and a more sexual song comes on... for example Rihanna Disturbia... i go straught into caveman on her.... like up the kino.

something i like to do when its loud, is barge a girl in a jokey way from the side to side position.. when she looks at you give her a cheeky smile, and take things from there.

I am confident, and I do have fun. Part of the reason I went to this club is cuz I love the music there so its easier for me to enjoy it.

I was with a wing cuz I just moved back to australia after like a year and a half in the USA; I know like 3 people in this city at the moment. I dont have pivots yet...

I got quite a few looks from girls, more glances rather then outright stares. Problem is I dont know exactly what to do from there to set me apart from every other guy in there. I dont want to go up a group and dance around them because I did that years ago as a complete AFC and (obviousely) it go me nowhere.

If I actually got a girl dancing with me I would know what to do.

Also where can I find the stuff about dancefloors by richar la ruina? I google searched it and nothing

Do what i do, bring a scarf and lightly whip ur target in the bum, and then let her grab it and pull her to you. if not, just go in the set and say "this is not how u dance" point to target "you! shake it like a black girl!!!" then when she does, grab her hand, spin her around and isolate in which ever way u want.
or if they are dancing pretty nice, say "man you guys can shake it like a black girl!" high five all of them and spin them when u high five, but don't spin ur target.
Thats what i do in the dance floor and it works pretty effectively.
the whole shaking it like a blackgirl gambit is sooooo good. it gets them rolling,
if u see a white girl with a bubble butt, u can say. dammnn girl u have the ass of a black girl, high five and spin.
what u guys think

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yeah dudes am here to learn the pick up game and to get better everyday

its in his 'natural art of seduction' book, i found it very relevant for me, as loud clubs is where im normally gaming.

I dont think you need to be an expert dancer, it can be a good dhv, if girls are wanting you to show them some moves, but you want to look like you have natural rythm.