Hey guys,

I got a few questions about a girl in my maths class at college so here goes. I changed groupes not so long ago and in my new maths class theres this girl who keeps looking at me but when ever i look back at her and smile she always looks away. she seems very nice but a bit shy so next week when i go back to college im gonna try and talk to her after class, this is the 1st time i will put what i have lernt from this forum and a book i am reading called the game.

But before this i have a few question:
- By looking at me is she interested in me or just think im weird? if she's interested why when i smile at her she doesnt smile back?
- What will be a good opener if i meet her at the bus stop?
- As im new to this do i have to ask her for her number?(i see her 2 days a week)
- How do i ask her out? and where to i ask her out? and after how long?

Thats about it but if you feel that there is something else i need to know please tell me.

Thanks very much guys

If you have female friends ask them those questions. If you dont, then make some... even if they are ugly as fuck, there advice will be the best you can ever get. No use asking people on here, The majority of ppl on this board were wierdos in high school.

Oh and.. Blow a spitball at the back of her head, that should get her attention.

Thanks for the reply, i didnt think about asking female friends questions lol

Ok, lets try to answer some of these questions

First: If she is looking at you, she is interested in you or something about you. This could be because she's attracted to you, or there is something notably strange about you. If you were heavily peacocked, for whatever reason, people will look at you, but are not necessarily attracted to you

Bus Stop opener... This one takes a lot of skill... Just ask when the next bus comes by. Its natural, clean, and chances are you can keep conversation going from there. No need for some insane routine based opener



As for the other questions, a number close should come naturally if you can hold decent conversation. Try to talk about genuine interests and chances are there will be some reason to meet up in the future

And as for asking her out, this is really up to you. Some guys will preach you have to wait X number of days, I prefer to just casually send a text a couple hours later to keep the interaction fresh in her mind

Oh, and if you ever end up sitting beside her in class and don't know how to open, there's usually one way that is dynamite. If the class is dull, pull out a piece of paper and draw a tick tack toe game. Put in an X and pass it to her. If she doesn't immediately get into the game, just look at her like your confused she's not willing to play.

If she doesn't play, she is clearly boring, hates having fun, and there is no need to waste any more time there

Cheers and good luck mate

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1. i agree with the above said..she lookin for a reason man, so something catchin her attn but like u said, she's shy
2. hey, did the #15 bus pass already? ok good, or ah damn, im gonna be late (make up a story to dhv if she asks late for wat) from there ur in a convo.. ask what bus she is takin, this can prolong convo if u ride the same bus, or create a time constraint to # close when either one of u parts..
3. if u c her 2 days a wk..no need to # close rite away...if she's really shy, then u have to build comfort & rapport first..so dat call is on u..read the ioi's
4. first move can be to the library to study or wrk on a project
that rite there is gold!! if she plays, dat can be an ioi