So basically I like this girl in my one of my classes and she is also on my train, I think she is cute and has a nice personality but we both hang around in different social groups so it hard to talk to her. In my class she sits on a table with all girls and im on a mixed table (the class is majority girls) and im too shy to go sit with her and all her female friends.

So the only option is to talk to her on the train where she rarely sits with anyone but the problem is she is gets on a few stops after mine so I would have to get up and go sit next to her and im worried about her thinking thats weird.

So would she find it weird for me to come over and start a conversation considering we have barely talked before and what are the best things to talk about?

(I don't want to creep her out because that would be bad considering she is in my class class and I just don't like annoying/disturbing people)

A few things: im not that confident when talking to new people, I would like to get to know her to maybe lead to a relationship but don't want to come across like all i want is a "relationship" because I don't and she likes to "party" which I don't do but would like too.

If you aren't confident, read Body Language by Allan Pease, I got the ebook off tpb, well worth the read. It wont help your verbal game, but it will help your non-verbal one which is very important as well.

Open her up with a screening opener, such as "I've seen you in class a few times, and I wanted to see what you were like." Make sure you make eye contact 60-70% of the time, this is necessary to build rapport. You should abe able to tell if she is interested based on her response. Dont search for common interests until you are both in a comfortable phase, just fluff with her abit. Try some incidental and overt kino.

If it doesnt work and she gets weird, dont sweat it, girls are disposable, and you are THE MAN.

There is no failure, only lessons.