I wasn't really sure where to post it, so I just chose the closest forum for this case.

Hi. I'm 15 and I just lost my first gf... (sorry for the bad English, it's my second language)
a week ago my gf and i broke up, because she thought the relationship is moving too fast (actually i wrote her a letter for our week together, in which i wrote that i love her and think that she's the one - a big mistake). i've sent a friend to check out what's happended and he said that she told him that the moment she read the letter the attraction disappeared.

she sits next to me at school so i managed to become a good friend of her. i need to find a way to bring back the attraction, without being tagged as a suiter. i need to find a creative way to get her back, or even find some "innocent" excuse to meet with her outside school (without the connotation of dating so she won't make excuses), where hitting on her will be much easier.

P.S
please dont tell me to find another girl

You should post this in the relationship section.

as for the post i agree on where u made the mistake. I also made that mistake with my ex gf where i wrote her letters and for some reason they didnt have the effect i wanted. and i was confused. i guess its sad that u must hold bak and still play hard to get and maintain being chased by ur gf in order to keep her wanting more.

the only advice i can give u is to not show her ur interested in her. i know that sounds impossible when u want to get her back. but Do things like stop sitting nxt to her, ignore her txts, hang out with other girls. She'll start wanting ur attention sooner or later. But if u go after her directly, ull neva get her back

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Lots of time, distance yourself, then reapproach it as if it's a new situation/.