| Don't worry about building attraction to her. Her looks should be good enough to get you interested in finding out if she qualifies for you otherwise. I know it is the goal of many men to sleep with many women, but the 10s who don't sleep around will want to fuck guys that CAN sleep with many women and DON'T. It's called standards. And having standards helps build attraction.
Lets say, for argument sake, you would fuck most girls 8+, and you are seducing as many of them as you can into bed, then your standard for fucking is 8+. Many PUAs claim this ONLY builds attraction, but the most important part here is the reason behind that.
Having more sex is attractive because it makes you better at sex. Sleeping with many women is attractive because you have the ability to do so. The ability, not the action, derives attraction. You have to balance your ability with your standard. Sure, you could hit up adult friend finder and fuck all the ugly desperate fat girls you wanted, but that wouldn't be good standard. Take your standard to a new level, and you can achieve the highest level of attraction because you have the power to sleep with good looking women.
Let your new standard of interest be your old standard of fucking, and you will build up your standard, and not only be able to sleep with girls that are hot, but girls that have other desirable traits as well.
The reason why you decided not to show too much interest in this girl could be because she did not keep your interest beyond her looks. It could be because you "over-gamed," but that topic is covered enough.
When approaching a set, find out if she qualifies for you. The goal is to build attraction WHILE you do this. You only need to pretend you are not interested when you are, if you fail to make that connection. Whether or not you feign disinterest, or interest is up to you.
Raise your standards. Raise your attraction. Get better women. _________________ Attraction is a choice.
ITS YOUR CHOICE!
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-Ders
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