hey guys, i can see this site is very active, i'm sure this opener has been used before. "hey guys, i can only stay a sec cause i have to get back to my friends, but i want a quick female opinion, my friend bobby has just broke up with his g/f, how long do you think its acceptable until he start dating one of her friends."



let me just say i appraoched about 10 sets, and didnt get great responce with this. then i usually go into. "hey guys i read an article the other day, did you know that 93% of women masturbate in the shower and the other 7% sing. do you know what they sing (they say no) o... you must be the other 93% the."



lets just say that lil joke should be called blow out material i think its extremly funny, and i've seen it work, it must just be the way im saying it for sure.



however i started just saying hi to girls with very good vibe. i had a geniune smile when i did this and was amazed. maybe my canned material doesnt work in high energy clubs? im a bit baffled by it. i thought it might just be good to come up with cnf openers and have fun. and i know that body language and voice tone are the main things. so saying a cnf opener like, "excuse me, i know you like me, but please dont make it look so obvious." or "hi i appreciate the interest, but please stop undressing me with your eyes."



what you think guys? really appreciate feedback



thanx guys

Hey, Ive found that you cant just go straight into an opinion opener off the bat. Ive noticed that if you open the group with watever, ie- "i heard you guys laughing from over there and had to know what was so funny". Once the group is opened THEN you can go into your 'dating/fashion/too young for marriage' material if you still want to use it.

Yeah, opinions are easier to introduce after you've already opened. I've had success every time with this in my short stint so far. I also have used that joke regarding women in the shower, and have got great responses.

It's all about body language and tone of voice as you said, but also - timing.