At a party two nights ago there were a bunch of girl basically facing a counter and each other. they pretty much coldly rejected every guy who approached

I though I would take up the challange but couldnt think of how to approach since they were talking to two AFCs on the other side of the counter. I noticed that one of the girls (clearly the most attractive) was flirting with the guys but at the same time looking away and rolling her eyes in complete disinterest.

I live on a college campus so situation like this are quite common, any ideas on how to approach/grab attention?

Le Loup,

One of the most entertaining conversations lately I had with a girl at a bar the other day was how I was able to spot AFC's (I didn't use the actual abbreviation) and we spent an hour or so spotting these guys and laughing about them.

Say you walk up to the counter they're leaning on and stand up against it next to your target (dare to take your space, you're a man).
You look at her for a second (then look away, she isn't that interesting) while saying:

YOU: What's up with all there guys in here. They don't seem to have a clue what they're doing..

She will know what you mean, since she already rejected all these AFC's earlier on. Also it raises your value for you talk to her about something she hasn't heard before. All these AFC's ask her about her work, school, deadlines boring stuff for a party. Women are social creatures, so bringing this up will get her intrigued in the conversation (and you).

GIRL: Yes

Think of this: what are the things most AFC's say? They ask her about her work/school or tell a lot about themselves. They over compliment her etc.
So you may say stuff like:

YOU: Let me guess, he asks you how your work/school is?

GIRL: Yeah, pretty much

YOU: I know, look at that guy over there (you can touch her back at this point). You can tell he isn't going to make it tonight

GIRL: bla bla



Hey guess what, you just got a connection with her. You may change the subject from here on out but if she seems to be intrigued go for it and maybe even make a game out of it for the two of you to enjoy. Remember to stay confident and keep an open and relaxed body language.

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Cheers mate

Two problems with that, the girls were really in a tight semi circle around a counter, and i dont like approaching from behind, it makes me look like a creep. If I had positioned myself beside her she would have ignored me because I would have looked like every other guy.

The other prob was that the AFCs were in the convo with them(other side of the semi circle/counter), they just couldnt take a hint and leave. I was waiting for them to leave for like half an hour and they didnt, so i got bored and went for other targets. I feel like saying they dont know what theyre doing right in front of they guys would either start an argument or fight, neither thing is good picking up girls.

How about this: tap one of the guys on the shoulder, look at the girl and tell her you're going to borrow her for [enter excuse here (a dance, a drink etc.)].
If you play it cool chances are she will come with you, instantly giving you higher value over the last guy talking to her. At this point you play your game, she's left her circle of friends so you should be in control of the situation now.
Even though this is probably a hard one to pull off, it's worth the satisfaction of trying. Remember there's also winning in trying.

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Cheers mate