Hi Everyone,

I can approach in day game and walking up to a single singularly easily but how the hell do I approach a group of 3, 4 or 5 girls .... how would I do that? I have no clue what to say ... any help ...

Thanks everyone.

I approached a 7 set today, and it went horrible. even tho i approached them and started a conversation. it was really dull, and only 3 out of the 7 girls responded. Really distracting when im not able to get everyones attention, and make the attracted to me stories. so i end up fleeing...

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Ok.. that is funny.. because i can approach every set except a 1 set.
for me they are the hardest ones!! (so probably for both of use.. it is mostly psychological).

I even wrote an article once about why approaching 1 sets is the hardest kind.. so, if you can do that.. you can open every set. KNOW THAT!

your'e opener should have
A time constraint: "hey guys! quick question, cause, me and my friends are gonna start a really cool game that I don't wanna miss.." (or any excuse for why you cannot stay long.)

have a reason for asking:
"me and my friend jeff were just talking about the weirdest thing!"

then start the actual opener:
"our friend's girlfriend, Christine, blablablablablabla"


use an opener that you are actually curious to hear their thoughts about, cause if you are not interested, they won't be either.

approach with high energy and confidant body language..

and if the set contain men, talk to the men, not the girls (at least not until you start the actual opener)


ONCE you get over this psychological block, you'll see big sets are not difficult.
if delivered correctly, they will all listen to you.
if delivered mediumy.. some of them will listen to you and the rest of the group will join in, when it gets really interesting.

so... it is easy. just know that and you will see there is no problem

sometimes i want to check how far i can take the opener and keep their attention.

"our friend, has this issue... and, it is not a thing you come across by everyday... listen, before i ask you, i must stress how important that is! look.. so he has this girlfriend, and, she.. she is great! you know those girls who always have a smile on there face and make you feel happy by just looking at them?!
no no.. i am not interested in her, that is not the question though.. but she actually is a really good friend of mine.. etc etc etc.."

you will be amazed how long they let you speak if you come with the right energy level and body language. many times i'm deep in a conversation without even completing the opener... (BTW!!! that only works on large groups that throw questions at you once you got their attention. one of the pluses of big groups..)

all i am trying to stress is.. big groups ARE easier.

Goodluck.

Mike