I go to a major university and have been recently going to a lot of parties with frats and other parties at the dorms. About a month ago I went to a party with my friend who has a ton of natural game and is extremely well connected there socially. He got us invited to a 'special' party downstairs, and it was unreal. It was pretty small, but a bunch of football/basketball players were there, as well as the Dance Team. These girls are all smoking hot and super freaky.

I was pretty nervous but still had a great time. The girls were dancing all on each other in front of everyone, and I did my best to separate myself from the guys just standing around. It worked because some of the girls just came up and started dancing on me. It was so much fun.

Anyway so then I was standing right infront of this girl, who was dancing with her butt up on another girl, who was against the door. She is probably somewhere between a 9 and 10. Super popular at school, etc. Anyway we make very strong eye contact and she is inviting me to dance with it. I stepped up to her, she bent all the way down to just about the floor and came back up. I got scared and stepped back, missing my chance.

I know this was stupid and I felt like crap immediately, in fact my friend who was watching it all said, "Dude that was your chance." I know I blew it. She ended up having sex with someone else at the party.

However I think all is not lost. I saw her last weekend at the dorm as I was going to a different party, she made really strong eye contact with me. Then I saw her again on campus a few days ago at a restaurant, same thing. Not enough to be obvious, but enough to where I know that she at least recognizes me lol.

Anyway my question is how to approach her if I see her again at a party? Obviously if it is the same situation, I would just dance. I have gotten my self confidence up to a respectable level and really want to start pulling some of the baddest chicks on campus. I got a number last weekend and talked to some other hotties at another party. I want to go straight to the top though.

If she is standing around at a party, how should I approach? I have been thinking about it and:

1. This girl is really going to care what other people, mainly her high-status friends, think.
2. She probably has an incredibly high b-shield up.
3. She is a freak nasty jersey-chaser (likes to sleep with ball players)

Something tells me I may want to go direct on her, but keep a very high status of my own and keep my inner game super tight. I don't really see an opinion opener being ideal here, but who knows? That's why I'm asking here. How should I open her? I don't want to miss my chance again!

Man it sounds like you got down what you need to do. You have put some thought into this which sounds plausable.
I remember Richard Heart talking about a simmilar situation in one of his classes. Direct will work at some point with this girl but he talked about how the key with girls like this is prestige. Build your image.
My suggestion would be.
Build your social proof by making yourself the "stud". Game her friends. Make her see you in that light. And then at another party like this, go direct. But only after building up your prestige to increase your success odds.

For a girl of that status who is used to getting hit on, you're opener is going to have to be a neg. She is so used to being told she is pretty, gorgeous and so on and so forth you have to hit her hard with something she's never been opened with.

I don't want to come off weird though because remember, this is college and I will see her again during the day sometimes. Gosh I don't want to see her in the lunchroom with all her friends one day if I mess this up lol.

Believe me I realize that if I put pressure on myself to 'game her' it will backfire. So I'm going to go in just to have fun at the party.

I really want to 'take her down a few notches' with my attitude. If you saw her face and body language you would understand lol she is so stuck up!

Could you provide any examples of a good opener to use here? I looked up some negs but I didn't like any of them.

You said she is a dancer or something?
Could go with something like
"You know, if you hit the gym hard for a few months you could go from cute to attractive." or some variation
or I'm sure she is into fashion, and so on so neg her about her clothing, hand bags, earings.
"I like those earings, I didn't know toys-r-us sold earings" or "Those earings are a little heavy for your ears but guys in Africa think that's sexy"

or a handbag neg if it's like shiny or something "Oh great handbag, did you spray paint it yourself?"

Or any other neg about clothing being out of style.

NOW most important though is if you neg her about anything, she is either going to neg you, shit test you right back so you've got to be ready with a response.

EDIT:
There is also the David Deangelo one that I remember, where you walk up, you look her up and down real quick and say "I've eaten girls like you for breakfast"
or I believe this was on PUA on VH1 the "Yeah, I've seen uglier" or others to that effect.

Alright I will think some more about it. I don't want to come across as weird or mean though. It really is a fine line. I realize that my inner game has to be incredibly tight with this chick, or everything will blow up in my face lol.

Gotta keep us posted on how this turns out. Lookin forward to a report soon! Get your game on this weekend!

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What would be somethings that she could say back? And how would you respond back to it?

Thanks!

DUDE!

Don't listen to the advice about negs and shit.

Just walk up to her and whisper in her ear something along the lines of you'd love the f__ the shit out of her. You already know it that you want to go direct. If you've got the balls then DO IT, and she's yours. None of this friendly shit. You know she's a freak so treat her like the sexy little freak she is..

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gwap

Wow dude I just got cold chills thinking about that. Definitely balls to the wall. I like it

This works, but if you have any hesitation in your head it won't.You may spike up ASD, but be playful, funny, cocky and it will go away.

a bit of advise would be to go after her friends first. going after the head bitch in charge is suicide if your not up for the challenge.

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. SBreezy .

Yo,
I say hit her with the neg. Get her to be on your dick and just keep acting like she is not good enough for you. remember you are the prize she is not. She is just another piece of ass or another way to pass time. Open then immediately neg her (i like your purse, that's not a real (brand name) is it?...or start talking to her and you should be close enough cuz it is a party and prolly loud so maybe bring some gum with you and give her a piece to neg her about her breath, or if she is talking like maybe act as if she spit when she says something)... then hit either time constraint her or keep things moving til it gets to fucking... It's harder to get advise on here but always helps to narrow out your options b/c more than likely we on here never seen this chick. Don't even worry about rejection b/c prolly more than half the party doesn't have to balls to approach her anyways. And if she does reject you move on to the next best female because it is all for fun. when u make the move post something on how it went whether good or bad fuck it...practice makes perfect

peace

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