So yeah this one girl just told me "oh, cool you say? you'll see I am really annoying" I said she was kinda "cool"

anyway, I always see that if a girl negs herself that means she is not interested, like what the hell is she trying to do? How should I respond to that? Is it because she is trying to seek approval from me?

Thank you all

I'd say its either confidence in her self that allows her to be so critical of herself with strangers/ other people.

IF NOT

Then its her seeking for compliments. So give her one. Then follow it up to complete a neg. Make sure its playful, she'll start defending herself, building a bit of confidence, and most importantly want to gain your approval more and mroe.

If you see things going downhill because she seems to be getting a bit down because of the negs, just comfort her. Give her kino, hug her then change the subject into a routine. You dont want to keep the conversation too much on her if she's selfconscious.

Hope this helps



GrifterUK

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Well I just smiled and told her "come on! dont say that, well we shall see.."

good response? or bad?

Thats fine.

This isn't really something to take very seriously IMO. I usually ignore women when they neg themselves. I just don't respond and change the subject.

Because its stupid.

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In response to "You'll see I'm rather annoying," I would say, "I don't need to wait. I can already see it. But lucky for you, I'm a people lover. So let's hug and be happy."

Yeah thats ok, but Thinkster's response would have been better. Bit of kino, shows more confidence. Don't look too much into it though

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