Ok so I met up with my wing last saturday to go game a super nice mall, where high class girls go to shop. We had no problem opening, we would usually come up with them on our own, but once I opened I didnt know how to steer it into a fun connecting conversation.

OPENER: We wandered into a chick shop, where there were lots of girls. I opened a set of two looking at jewelery where there was an ugly scarf sitting there. I put it on commenting on how well it would look. I made this up on the spot. I was like "what do you guys think? Im going to a cross dressing party tonight, you think i could pull this off? Look and check me out."

They said yeah it looks good on me. I said cool, you have an eye for fashion. Worked my way into introductions. Then I had no clue where to go with it. They were still looking at jewelry and big fat rings. I picked one up and said, If I were you id totally get this. She put it on. Definate IOIs. But i didnt know what to do after?

We kinda just wandered off through the store...

What do you guys think??

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Spye

When in doubt, Relax!
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at a club people go to socialize, pick up, get picked up etc. so hence there is just a big room with people in it.....

people don't go to malls to get picked up or hit on..

keep that in mind... because you dont want to be standing there talking to these girls for 20 mins and then try and kiss her.. its very difficult to do this outside of a club...

just be quick

1 open
2 transition (into some random topic)
3 build attraction (be funny interesting)
4 close and bounce

in your example if you had the right body language... u shoulda number closed easy.

1 does this scarf look good on me
2 im going to a cross dressing party tonight whatchu think
3 body language is key... look her in the eye "this is so you, this ring.. try it... wait.. this doesnt mean im gonna marry you ok"
4 "look youre really kewl and your friend is......blonde. uhm.. *SMILE* i gotta bounce though, I seriously thought this was rocky mountain chocolate factory...wrong store, go figure. but you seem friendly and i want to talk to you again *hand phone* (have it open to notepad app already) gimme ur email address.... while shes typing it ask her if she uses msn... if she says yes.. say "oh. i dont...put ur num there too then and ill txt ya"

if she says no "then put your number too blah blah."

say have a nice day and bounce... (no high fiving your friends afterward)

also guage how reluctant she is to give you the email.. if it was just bam here you go. then go for num but if shes like "ehhhh... ok i guess" then dont ask for num and send her a really clever-witty email that ends with

PS: the kewl kids use phones and texting nowadays...reply with your cell so we can come into this century.... otherwise thers gonna be a pigeon with a note in your window for my next msg..(im not kidding)..

Thanks Chester, thats awesome!

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Spye

When in doubt, Relax!
-partner in crime, Andereffect