Hey,

My story goes something like this:
I met a girl 1 almost two years ago and everything was very friendly and fun. A week later I met girl 2 and ended up in a LTR with her. Girl 1 hasn't spoke to me since, we're friends on facebook but there is no interaction between us. I want game girl 1 now.

Any ideas on how to open her?

Thanks,

- Bandit

don't stress the fact that you two haven't been seeing each other because of that other girl, just send a message like you would to any other girl you haven't seen for a few weeks.

I suppose, what's the worse thing that could happen? I may just man up and chance my luck! I'll let y'all know how it goes!

- Bandit

It isnt that simple Hephi.

It's the most awkward situation I could ever be in;trying to sarge a chicc you havent spoken to in years(or ignored).

But it's actually easy to do;more so in person.

Doing so online(fb,etc.),would be suicide;she'd just blow you off or blow off your online message.

Being face to face,she would be a social violator if she blow off your attempt at talking to her.

Trust me on this one Border Bandit.

She'd be so shocked that you're talking to her(in person)that her intinct would be to re-engage you,or aim to win you over in a sense.

Trying to get at her online(via text,chat),she will have all the time & space to reject your attempt at re-acquianting.

She doesnt have the mental space to do this in person.

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actually it is that simple, it all depends on your attitude.
if you approach with the vibe that its all difficult it will be.
remember it all about your attitude and energy you bring. i have succefully opened girls i havent talk to in years or known in my afc days. they are acually suprised/delighted. when a girl sees you have changed from your old afc self they tend to chase you. get out of your head and just go and talk with a great vibe trust me it will work. if she sees you unsure of yourself trying to rehearse thats it game over.....

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. SBreezy .

o and if worst comes to worst just go and neg her. i telling nothign works better than negging girls that you previously known.

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. SBreezy .

btw doing it online would probably be the easiest.

whatever you do dont't poke her or press like on her posts just
send her a slick and cocky message, that she will be obligated to reply to.

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. SBreezy .

I just sat beside her in the College Library and used "So how was your weekend?" as an opener! She looked up at me, laughed and then hugged me saying it has been too long. Spent a good hour talking (in the library ) to her but it looks like I've regained a friend. Nothing else will come of it but to be honest I'm happy enough.