what do you guys think if i was to literally plan my openers for different situations and write them down. i would be able to approach easier if i new exactly what to say

I do this when I go hunting. If I know I'm going some place in particular to pick up girls (like a college campus) I will usually have an opener ready to go.

But its good to have a default opener that can work in ANY situation for when you are out during the day and see an attractive girl out of the blue without much time to react.

A good default opener is:

"Hey.. what time is it?"

Then you can start a conversation from here like: "Yeah.. my cell phone is acting funny and I don't have a watch. I think I need a new phone. How is your phone? Is it reliable?"

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yer i aggree i think it would also reduce any approach anxiety because you already have an opener listed for mor than one specific time. and by the way how many openers would u right down??? and how would you transistion from "what time is it"

I have different openers for different situations. You really don't need a whole lot. Something like "Hey.. do you know if there is a pizza place around here?" can work almost anywhere outside.

If you are in a mall you can't ask "Where is the Urban Outfitters store?" or if she has a bag with her you can ask where she got it. Bars/clubs you ask: "What are you drinking?"

I don't think you need to write down a whole lot of them. Just enough to have a basis when you are out in the field.

With asking "Hey.. what time is it?" I would transition with something like: "Yeah.. my cell phone is acting funny and I don't have a watch. I think I need a new phone. How is your phone? Is it reliable?"

After she responds I would make a quick comment about her phone then transition to a compliment like: "You're really cute by the way. Are you from this area?"

And go from there until you are ready to close.

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With pickup the less preparation the better. Memorise 2-3 openers max. Roosh's "you guys look like you are having the most fun out of anyone here' is a very versatile said with irony, sarcasm, genuine delight etc. You need to be focussing more on being creative, responding to the her and taking things forward, this is where most of your percentage in game will come.

Went out to the mall and I spotted 2 HB's 7. I really couldn't think of an opener but one came to mind a few hours later - FEEL FREE TO COMMENT OR CRITICIZE

Overcome: Hi, Like your purse (or any other accessory - in my case -it was a big shinny purple purse). You look like a smart girl with style, gotta ask you a quick question: I've had my hair faded for the past 13 years, Should I keep letting my hair grow or should I keep it the same?
HB: Blah Blah Blah
Overcome: I'm aiming for an exciting look - I think we're kind of on the same page (smile). Whats your name?
HB: Blah Blah
Overcome: My name's Overcome.
Whats there to do for fun around here?
HB: blah blah blah
Overcome: Ok well have you ever been to the shooting range?
HB: Blah Blah
Overcome: yeah its really fun. Lets exchange numbers - maybe meet up for some coffee...
HB: Blah Blah Blah
Overcome: One last question; I hope you deep throat and suck on some ballz...

(Just kidding with the last part)

I totally agree. Don't over think it. Just have a few basic openers to stop her so you can actually talk to her. From that point on.. it depends on the situation and the girl.

You will know within seconds of talking to a girl if she is friendly and happy to meet you or a bitch. If you get bad energy just walk away. Don't even say bye.. just start walking.

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memorize them,and try to act natural after a time.You don;t need to think what to say,just say it!