Just fucked up the second time in 2 weeks lol

Same situation over and over... Im waiting for a train on the platform and some cute girl walks by and stops a couple of meters away... you get on the same car and she stands or sits really close to you and kinda starts checking you out by turning her head as if shes looking somewhere else lol, but its like really obvious...

the last couple of times they both got off at my stop, both were listening to music, which I thought made it more difficult to approach, and fuck, guess what, both times I blew it, didnt approach...

Any tips guys?

Aproach.

If you have AA, go check out some great posts about it.

What is it you want advice on? What to say? When to approach? As silverito said, are you having anxiety issues? Check out approachanxiety.com, there are some really good posts there.

Don't miss out on anymore opportunities bro.

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Correct me if this comes off as creepy, but I think this presents a great opportunity for that initial kino. Lightly touch them on the back of the arm to get their attention until they take off their headphones, and when they do, open.

This one I saw from Alex Coulson who has a bunch of videos on youtube of daygame. Useful with the earphone situation.

"What are you listening to?"

Yeah it's that simple

Then she replies and you say something like "Oh my mother warned me about girls to listen to X", which instantly sets the playful mood.

Or for train/bus in general, semi-direct is good. "No one talks on trains these days so I'm changing that, [and continue]"

And there's this one I read in this forum a few days ago (not sure where) "Don't you have it when random people start talking to you [optional, add: on public transport]?" You can take that basically anywhere.

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headphones are the scourge of all aspiring PUA's!!! I feel like no invention has made me feel more of this sense of disconnection from the people that are right next to me. Maybe that's a good philosophical statement to throw out when you talk to a girl.

I say its ok to bug her once but if she like immediately puts the headphones back in after you get out what you had to say then probably not good for you.

There's some good advice here. I've used techniques like what ffwf has said and they've worked great for me, as long as you have the personality to pull it off.

As for the light touch on the arm to get her attention, during the day, I tend to try not to touch someone off the bat like that. In daygame, you should touch less, not approach people from behind, etc...you know, stuff that might seem creepy.

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Thanks for some good advice guys!

Next time I am going to try one of these... I guess a lot of it depends on the situation, especially on how packed the place is... I did try this a coupe of times, but there werent many people around me when I did it. One time I just asked the girl what station was the closest to the club I was going to and she became very talkative right away without me really saying anything else. The first time I tried to do it on the subway, I thought I failed miserably, but guess what, months later that same girl whom I added on facebook was calling me over to her place lol and thats after I opened with some stupid shit like "hey, what are you doing tomorrow, lets hang out..." lol
The last two times I was hesitant mainly for two reasons, her listening to music and other people being around us... but I guess you can still pull it off...
IMO, whats most important, is to watch for IOIs, instead of just approaching every single girl you like... because with some, you can just feel it that they are digging you...

Just remember Lover-boy that often times, even women who don't show you IOI's may still end up being into you. If you get IOI's, then maybe you can go more direct. If not, I say if you see someone you're attracted to, you should still give it a shot.

You're on the right track.

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i think the easiest thing is to pick up on something unique instead about their looks, then comment on it, this makes it easy you dont have to think to hard, you dont need much to say, but chances are she'll say something you can make another question or a light neg about. then i have no idea...im good at opening but die soon after lol. i guess you could leave her hanging as youll probably run into her on the train another time...then you can strike it up hard.

How do you guys go about opening a girl who is passing you on the street? This happens to me all the time, and I'm not sure how to open. Any suggstions? How to transition away from the opener, especially if you ask for directions somewhere..?

I really like the lines in this post. real neat.