My approach anxiety is comletely gone. I can go up to any HB and make any kind of small talk.

Now... What next? How do I learn to "flirt" and move past the small talk converation. Smiling is still kind of hard. Any pointers? I want to be able to close at least 30 numbers in 1 week but I do not no how/where to start conversation wise.

Pointers from recovering AFC's who are now successful PUA?

im gonna reply to this thread so i can come back and see what responses you get because I am asking the same question to myself...

I like your positivity, but first, stick to basics, 30 numbers in a week? Good luck, that attitude is good. First how many are you roughly closing on at the moment?

Back to your question, good AA is gone, ask yourself, would you rather smile or cry/look upset? I know the answer, so just don't look sad, you don't need to hold a smile 24/7.

Talk about anything, be interesting, talk how you would to a random person who asked for directions, a friend, be friendly is the key, make the woman feel comfortable, as if your worth something.

Ask for directions, ask for an opinion on something, or hell even go direct and give a straight compliment moving onto conversation after.

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same here

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I have just found out about this system.
And it quite intrigued when i read about it

"I like your positivity, but first, stick to basics, 30 numbers in a week? Good luck, that attitude is good. First how many are you roughly closing on at the moment?"

Last night I went to a sports bar with some friends. I wasnt planning on sarging but there were girls there so I took the oppurtunity. There were 3 girls that were attractive but one of them I really thought was pretty cute. She had a really cool personality on top of that. But anyways I got a number from one of the girls and the one I found really cute told me to give her my number. I know shes not going to call me because I didnt feel the connection with her like I did the other 2 girls. I felt a lot more comfortable with the other 2 girls probably because i didnt feel THAT attracted to them. Joking/laughing etc came... just naturally. I didnt have to fake anything. Just being my self. I guess I can work on that part with practice. (Just like anything else in life)

"Back to your question, good AA is gone, ask yourself, would you rather smile or cry/look upset? I know the answer, so just don't look sad, you don't need to hold a smile 24/7."

Yeah. Your right. I just have to feel more comfortable.

I guess thats all it really is. Grab your nuts... and practice. practice. practice.