Ok. I'm ready to hear the 'don't shit where you eat' school of thought. But I need to check in with all the schoolz of thought.

I live in a massive apartment building in a big city. It is impersonal. I've never met my neighbors. There is a gym in the building, so my gym scenario is not like the usual 'external' or paid membership gym scenario.

There is a girl there who is the only person who works out as consistently as I do (6-7 days/week). She is an absolute machine. She runs for an hour straight. Lifts weights. Bikes for 45 mins. She's not a 10; i'd wager most would say 8.5. But just my type. I have had to cut my workouts short because she was driving me crazy with her impromptu stretching in the middle of workouts, stopping the treadmill, bending over, etc.

Lately, I have seen her packing up (we both work out kind of late at night) when I arrive. When she sees me, she always looks me up and down and I've seen her take her ipod back out and put her headphones back in and do another 30 mins of running, etc. not sure if i'm just jumping to conclusions on that type of stuff. we are really aware of each other - i know that much.

would you feel compelled to act on this? or would you stay away? curious about anyone who has seen a similar scenario.

Go for it, she is showing interest.

She has given you a few ioi's (have cut down the quote to show the ioi's) so grab the bull by the horns and just go for it, do some gym game, ask her to spot you w/e just get the dialogue going, instant date, then fclose her

IOI's alert, she's there, open, nothing to lose.

Open with general conversation if you see fit, your there the same times, a lot of the time, be friendly.

Ask her if she's training for something, give her a compliment.. Don't ned too much in the gym.

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