hey:)
I don't know, if this is the right thread, but in my opinion I think so*gg*
So my problem is, that I knew a super HP, she is sooo cute and she droped her boyfriend today...
She really likes mine, but I havn't seen her in real yet. But my problem is, how should I go on, to grap her heard?

Can you give me some useful suggestions??

greetz H.

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Tell me a little more.
How long do you know her?
What do you know about her?
In what way did you communicate with her?
What IOIs has she given to you?

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I know her since 1 month or so..
I think I know really much of her, because we wrote a lot of messages and there she told me the problemes with her family an her ex-boyfriend.
She told me her interessts and,...
From my opinion it seems so, that I know her for more than a month!
The communication was just over the internet, but today she said that she meets me:)
IOI ist very high, she told me once "If I haven't a bf, I would fall in love with you". And she says the whole time, that she wants to be close to me
I think that's a good sign? or not?

lg H.

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of course that's a very positive sign!
so you're already in A3. I would meet her and then start with kino escalation. just hug her when you see for the first time. If you walking around with her, just try to start hand holding, then squeeze her hand. do all the kino stuff which makes her feel comfortable.
i think you're on your way!
if you have any more questions, i'm here for back up

Internet interactions are tough to say... Once I tried that when I was in 9th grade and the girl turned out to look like a fuckin zombie. It is also hard because there is so little to talk about on the internet, the conversation is so boring. If she talked to you about her boyfriend did you give her advice? If you did than there may be a good chance she'll make you "just a friend". This is due to the fact that girls seek opinions from their "Friends". When it comes to seducing women women don't need a therapist, they need adventure. So the conversations you make with her will have a real impact. Like Im a newbie to being a PUA, but not to hooking up with girls. My only advice is dont be her therapist, if you haven't been doing that than it may be good, but ya use a lot of Keno. If you've only been talking to her on the internet for a long time than a real physical interaction should be in place.

In one point you are right, but I think that a HB will be understood. So I think it isnt sooo bad! Because then she knows that you are different to her BF

lg habit

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The worst thing you can do when trying to seduce a woman or build a relationship is be her therapist. Being there for her may seem like a good approach, but it's a trap. She'll begin to associate you with her problems, and when it's time for her to move on from them, she'll do whatever she can to get rid of those feelings of pain and anything that reminds her of it (including you). I'm not saying don't pursue her at all, but instead of talking to her about a lot of it, you could try to shift the conversations whenever possible, or shorten the emails a bit. Good luck

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hm, it sounds like your really falling in the friend zone. she telling you her probs; like the others have said build alot of kino with her and make sure you SOI her...

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hm. you can make her your girl if you want. in the fact, when i came into a new class(because of the levels change) if was a friend for all the girls, for about 4-5months now, and with one of them i was really good friend, she knew a lot of about my girls, about me, but she just knew about me as much as i let to know. so in her eyes i'm some kind of playa, but i met her a few times and now i just need a place for sex. if the first time you'll not frenchkiss her it's not so bad, just use KINO. hold her hand, put it on your knee, kiss her with a simple kiss. Just be close to her, and touch her. i don't know why, but with the last 3 girls i was using a lot of KINO and with all of them i haven't been kissing the first time we met. But the second time it works as atomic bomb because my last girl said "you know, we're doing bad... we can't do this" so while closing to her i told "you know, this is bad too" then i touched her face with mine and said "you know, this is really bad" then i put my lips on hers and said "and this is gonna be as bad as possible" then we've frenchkissed each other for about 20seconds a lot of times. And after first 2 hot kisses i felt like a fishman who felt that fish have hooked onto the hook, because girl started talking different, look at me different, and the next time i didn't need to do it, because she did it. and now i feel that she's really in love with me. but i don't say about us to anyone except some my BEST BEST friends, because i don't want that my class know about us