| Non-Verbal Sexual Cuing
Attractiveness does not equal attraction- you
may look like an ugly mule yet still light a
woman’s fire
The woman’s limbic brain is responsible for lust,
desire, and mating- light it and she’ll feel
attraction no matter her reasons not to date you
Resonance, speed, and tone of voice are the
most important nonverbal cues for creating
sexual attraction with women
The words you say to a woman are not so
important as HOW you say them and HOW you
project yourself
With resonant, sultry, and sexy voice, women
will become sexually excited as soon as you
open your mouth
Your voice betrays you- with it do you convey
fear or power, submission or dominance,
nervousness or relaxation
If you sound timid, soft, or squeaky women will
judge you weak, insecure no matter how clever
your tongue is
With a sexy voice, you’re a walking talking
hypnotist- everything you say is a trance and
women will fall for its spell
You cannot hide your voice, you cannot escape
it. Your voice IS your identity. How you speak
creates your very being
To hold and engage a woman, speak at a “listen
to what I’m saying” volume. Grab hold of the
words and direct them outward with intention
If you talk quickly and pause only enough to take
a short breath, you come across as insecure
and unsure- slow down!
If you speak fast, women will miss what you say
and the importance will be lost- but pausing after
a word gives time for the idea to sink in
When nervous, you don’t breathe properly and
speak too quickly- which makes you sound highpitched
and nasal- slow down and relax!
Breathing shallow prevents you from having
vocal resonance- get into the habit of breathing
fully and deeply
A smile shows that you're an open, friendly,
relaxed person. It's an attitude that says without
words, “I'm in a good mood. I'm approachable”
Ever notice how much more friendly and inviting
a woman is whose smiling? Likewise, your smile
makes you the man
Smiling is infectious- women naturally smile
when they see yours, making THEM feel open,
friendly, and relaxed
Women enjoy the ACT of your smile rather than
its physical perfection- the ACT of smiling shows
women that you're friendly and confident
When you shut your mouth with a stern
expression you communicate to women, “Stay
away from me.” Smile, smile, smile!
Money and a fancy car may excite the societal
programmed woman- but your smile excites her
soul
Get into the habit of smiling- all the time. When
meeting a woman, any women, approach with a
smile and leave with a smile
Give the sales lady a wide, open smile. Pause a
beat and hold- until she smiles back. When her
eyes glow, ask her name
Strength, success, and sexiness are the signs of
good posture- tension and weakness the signs
of poor
Don’t fidget on the date- move in a measured
and controlled fashion, slowly and deliberately
and with purpose
No playing with your hands, no pacing. No shifty
eyes, no looking around the room. No crossing
and uncrossing your arms and no tapping your
leg
If your body is tense, relax it. If your arms
crossed, uncross them. If your feet pace, ground
them. Mental confidence follows physical
relaxation
In unfamiliar situations like a date fight your
instinct to speed up- slow down the reality
around you and relax
Open your body– uncross your arms, keep your
hands apart, open the stance of your legs like a
peacock spreading its bright feathers
When you sit down spread your arms out and
lean back like you’re the owner of the club with
not a care in the world- that’s PIMP sexy
When talking to a woman, don’t lean in to hear
her- it’s needy. Motion the woman to lean into
you
A simple touch, even a casual touch on the arm,
sends a clear message of electric fireworks to
the lust center of a woman’s brain
You can easily talk to a woman for an hour and
not have as intense an effect if you put your
hand on her shoulder or stroke the back of her
neck
A woman’s body is covered with thousands of
sensory receptors that trigger off like a thousand
hot torches all at once at the slightest touch
Casual touches shows a woman that you’re not
afraid to touch because, likely, women like to be
touched by you
Don't underestimate how one or two well-placed
touches on the shoulder or back can make a
woman think of you as a sexual crush
Women smell a little body odor from 3 feet away
whereas a man smells none- “pretty flowers
want a man with a morning shower”
Women’s sense of smell is x100 more powerful
than a man’s- safer to be a little paranoid of your
scent then a little lax
Women’s smell glands pass directly to her limbic
brain which feels either attraction and lust, or
revulsion and disgust- smell nice!
Researches have found that odor influences
people’s opinions and that it’s one of the
quickest ways to change a woman’s emotions
Women have a visceral, primal response to
scent on a deep level. Nothing attracts a woman
like a man with cologne
Physically cut just slightly into a woman’s
private, intimate space 18 to 12 inches away to
trigger a palpable sexual tension
Come close enough to a woman for her to be
uneasy in a way that she can’t quite put her
finger on what it is, but not close enough for her
to object
As long as she doesn’t back away and the more
rapport you have, the more you can move in
further into a woman’s intimate space to turn up
the heat
Your eyes can do far more talking than your
words. Your eyes can make a woman feel
uneasy and excited
Any wuss can make eye contact from far away;
only a romantic hero can make eye contact up
close and hold the sexual tension
Eye contact by definition is mutual- when she’s
actively avoiding you and not reciprocating eye
contact back you’re staring
Don’t dart your eyes or look away- linger longer
on her eyes than you would normally, almost as
if your eyes stick to hers like soft glue
Continue eye contact with a woman during
silences in the conversation. Strong long-lasting
eye contact that stays overtime electrifies
When you do look away, look away reluctantly.
Drag your eyes away slowly, as though they’re
stuck with soft glue
The more nonverbal sexual cues you stack upon
one another, the more reliably you’ll trigger
heated sexual responses in the woman
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