I live downsouth in America and I'm a black guy. At my school I have trouble talking to girls because either they know me as that fat smart kid, or the kid who drives that cool car and is fat and smart. What happens is I start to talk to a girl and I end up as just a friend or worse that kid you talk to when a big group project comes up. I'm not sure what my problem is? I tried being confident but I chicken out and just not say anything or pull out my phone and look at nothing. What should I do?

I used to have that problem too when i was 13-14

What you need to do is portray a demonstartion of higher value (DHV)

Have a few stories handy for this.

At school it is almost impossible to run full game so instead, get the girl attracted enough for a second date out of school, on the weekends. This will give you enough isolation for the kill


Recap:

1) DHV
2) Be the alpha with all the right body languages/voice.
3) Keep the whole group involved while talking.

I suggest you read http://www.gunwitch.com/seduction/gwm1.html9

dlcuddles you lack self esteem my friend. You need to change the way you see yourself, and others will change the way they see you too.

I do believe that reading the The Attraction Code (Vin Dicarlo) will help inspire you and give yo motivation and a tad more confidence.

Dont get me wrong though, a book will inspire you and give you some technical knowledge, but you WILL need to get out there and put yourself out of your comfort zone. Accept the fact that you ARE going to have awkward moments and rejections, but you need to learn to embrace them, laugh them off, and carry on about your day as happy as hell without a care in the world. Its all part of the learning curve while developing the new you. Try to see yourself as the type of person that is so god dam sure of himself that nothing anyone says will ever effect you. Rock solid composure and being comfortable in your own skin is what its all about.