Het ppl. I am sooo confident when i'm drunk, but not so much when i'm sober. I know all the pro's do it sober. Being counterproductive ,I find that I have whisky dick... Any advice?

Maybe your not all that confident when your drunk.
Maybe you just don't realize that your actually making a fool out of yourself.

Sober when gaming.
Repeat this mantra.

i know what you mean bro....but let me tell you something it's more of a fake confince.. try to get confortable with the game sober. when you have under controll, then you can drink. people think they can fly when they're drunk, but all they really do is jump out on the window.

BUT if you think you do better when drunk, try to find the middle way...tipsy. at least that's what i do when i go out. 2-3 glasses of rum and coke and i'm unstopable

haha, thats a very good tip. Tipsy would be good, enough of a confidence boost. I am now on my fourth double vodka and coke though, too late tonight, lol.

I agree that you should only be a couple drinks deep just to keep your confidence up. I perform stand up comedy at clubs on open mic nights and stuff and I only have 2 drinks maximum just to relax me a bit, but no more than that.

If you are really still nervous when approaching maybe go in drunk so you have confidence, and only work on perfecting your game. Then when you are confident with your game, you can go in when you are sober, or only a couple deep, and your body will be fully functioning.

This is what I usually do..

Start off the night sober, make a few approaches, if it doesnt go well I say screw it and drink my face off, hit up the dance floor and work whatever magic I can summon from there.

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hi, good question

I normally drink a few shots or beers before I go out,
but you also can drink a lot of coffee with rum or energy drink, it works for me.

And just get in the party mood BEFORE you enter the building. A lot of people just drink to get in the partymood, but if you get in it before you are in, there is no reason to get wasted

how to get in the partymood?
make yourself a playlist with only awesome songs. An example can be found in the bro code - barney stinson.
listen to it and dance your ass of at home, or in your car or on the street. and also add songs you find awesome. Then you go in with a big smile and start to party and sarge!

I hope it is usefull for you, and I am sorry for my bad english, but I am Dutch, and I just had a rough partyweek in Chersonissos

greets Seb

Sound advice. This is how you kick your inner game into motion.

What I used to do was go with the intention of NOT drinking, that FORCES you to have fun sober. It FORCES you to have to be social on your own, and when you are sober, the positive effects of being social are more potent. Like sebduction said, listen to your favorite songs before you go out and move! You get into PUA mode, you go with the intention of having fun without drinking, and THEN you can drink when the time comes. I would go with the intention of not drinking and just having fun, but I knew eventually there would be drinking games etc. so you don't get smashed too fast, rather you just ride the wave. I'll admit the alcohol can make you more "adventurous", this is why its important to have fun (DHV), then drink when you are with the target(s), that's how I usually get into the zone.


The problem with drunk game is that if you not in the zone beforehand and are unsuccessful, you might think its because you haven't drank enough, so you drink until you're pissing yourself and then you're even more in the dump.


Fun is the highest goal, NOT drinking, NOT women. If you build it, they will come.

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Its fun to get drunk, but it fucks up your game incredibly when you take a couple fifths to the dome. Drink enough to get comfortable, but not enough to hit people.

trust me

Alcohol usually helps two areas: approach anxiety and buying temperature in high-energy environments. Otherwise, being drunk usually isn't a positive, especially when you're trying to get it up. Also, drunk sarging does very little for your day game, unless you're drunk then too of course. What is your data like from drunk versus sober sarging?