Today will be my first day in the field, I have a list of errands to run so i will take styles advice and always have something better to do than pick up women.

Goal:- successfully open up 50 sets (Day game)

Stage:- A1 open

Opener:- how good are you with geography, can you name the 5 oceans? (a real question i can't answer without looking on the internet) I wanted my interest in the woman to be real so i picked something i REALLY don't know

Locations:- UNCC college campus, Post office, YMCA, Eastland mall

Exercised points in Opener

* False time constraint
* Rocking away body language
* Have slightly higher energy
* Root the opener (reason for asking)
*When i run out of material i will try to hang in for an extra 20% of my initial time.

Atlantic, Pacific, Indian, Mediterranean, and Red Sea? That's a good hook for brainy types. Dumb girls will probably just give you a blank look, laugh, and turn away. You should post results, no one ever does that when they come up with something.

Well to sum up today i did nothing for daygame period! and for night game (went out to a club) without even trying i almost ended up going home with this fat red neck chick, but i passed mainly because i am in this to get a QUALITY woman, not what life hands me

Problems:- Lacking motivation, I am at a point right now where i don't really fucking care whats happening around me, i am not feeling the excitement in a club and even though i am surrounded with super hot babes i could almost care less.

My Solution:-No more sex with my fuck buddy and no more masturbation so my testosterone levels will be jacked, keep lifting weight to boot them even higher.

I would really like so feedback what do you guys think i should do so i could be more "in the moment" and motivated?

Dude, I tried not masturbating for a month because I thought I was getting bored of sex. No, it turned out I was getting bored of the women I was settling for. Your sex drive is probably fine, you just haven't got a good woman to get it out of you. Don't stress that because that will fix itself when you fix your REAL problem. You can still beat it and bang your fuck buddy (unless you think she lowers your status).

I hear you on not being motivated for bar/club game. That happened to me. That happened to me because I cared too much and wasn't getting the dramatic results I wanted, so instead of handling the disappointment, focusing on the positive, I turned myself off (which made my game 10x shittier).

My solution was I moved to online game. Hear me out. I was drowning myself in bars, forcing myself to go out and hating it, hating myself when AA kept me from talking to a single girl some nights, hating it when conversations trailed off or girls went to do something more interesting, hating having to buy alcohol just to loosen up, and hating most of all not pulling girls I deserved. I like online game because when a girl comes out, she's there totally for me and it's already a day 2 (which means I barely have to use any game). Now that I've been doing online game for a year, I'm actually toeing my way back into clubs here and there and it's fun again. You're at burn out, you have to try a different method, online game, day game, something. Kudos on not banging the fat girl, I know how tempting that can be just for gratification.

Scientist, dude I feel the same way brother. I don't know if my mind does a fuk-over as I hear the club music playing and when I initially walk into the club as get blasted with the SPAM that in the past has not always been the best place for me to meet women.

I went to Pacific Beach CA this past weekend and oh my was I surrounded by some of the best looking ladies that I've seen in a long time. I have the same issue that I lose energy as soon as I get there. I almost lose energy as soon as I walk into the club. I honestly think it's my mind defeating me before I even start.

It would be so helpful to go with a pro and really learn as it's happening. I have a hard time breaking out of the shell. I also purposely did not drink much as I always do. I pre gamed with two drinks and I only had two more the rest of the night.

I was perfectly coherent and when I usually go out I am always way to drunk and I am sounding like an idiot at the end of the night. Even though I was not drunk this time and I had perfect control of what I said, it was not lose and lacked the energy and excitement that a lot of people had there drunk. How did everyone else deal with these issues? When I read the book and reading how Style broke the ice, it seems to me that it was really because he had a lot of experience around him to push him over that barrier. What do you guys think?

You are making a exuse. You are not lacking any motivation.

You are lacking discipline. Of course you get approach aniexty, but you're seeing that as not beeing motivated.
So, slap yourself in the face 2 times, and say to yourself, why am I here? Why am I in this club? Did I came here to practice my game, or to get bumdrunk and cry myself to bed tonight.
And you approach.
Remeber crying because you failed at doing something is always better then crying because you didn't do anything.

You set up this whole plan and you didn't do shit, now you're not the only one, most of the guys here don't do shit, that's the problem.
Because if everyone would get out, there would be less questions about things that not even happend yet.

It's so easy to give advice, even the advice I'm giving now is easy. Everyone KNOWS it's easy to give advice, but you dont get better by giving it, it only gives you the illusion.
So doing the things that are said here on this forum, is a whole different story.

Tell me, if you are not motivated to game girls. Where ARE you motivated in?
playing piano, dancing, scooba diving?
Then do that, if that makes you happy.
But if your answer is playing video games, then I would come up to you personally to kick your ass.

You know what you want, you fucking know it. THEN DO IT. Stick with your plan, and when anxiety comes up, slap yourself.
I literally do that, when I get anxious, I slap myself and I tell myself, what am I here for? Destiny doesn't exist, I must guide destiny I literally slap myself again. And I approach.

Tell yourself you are not coming back here, if you don't have any field rapports. Stick with your plan, discuss what happend here.
It doesn't matter if you fail, that's the way you will be great in it.

All the best PUA's have failed in live, and then said, FUCK IT, I AM gonna change myself. They did and they didn't fall back.

I believe the uglier you are, the more potential you have to become great at PUA

Hi, PS.

Day game is worth the deal for a number of reasons.

Less than 10% of people find gf in the bar or club. If you are going to areas which you like to go, chances are u are likely to find women who click with u.

You can see how good looking they are without the deception of the heavy make up.

There is no Bitch shield against boring guys outside the clubs.

There is a lot less competition. There are less chicks in day games, but for less clueless AFCs and PUAs.

There are a lot more good points. I ll stop here.

Well for day game, what I do is trying a few approach during the days during the normal routines of my life. As I head back from one point to another in the city, I talk to some chicks on the train. You can just warm up and feel good about yourself without even Numbering close. It is alot less stressful about having a target in mind of how many approach to make per day. But make sure that when the chance comes, don't freak out and run away.

FastFlyer, I am in the same boat as you man, half the time i'm so mangled before I even go to the bar that by the time I get there, there would be no chance of me wheeling any women by the end of the night. Not good. It's AA bud it happens to everyone me included. Here's a couple things that I have come across to help push through.

1. Don't be so focused on the outcome, the obvious one being banging broads. Have an opener or two ready, slap yourself like zendelo does and go up and open, who cares what happens after that because the sole fact that you actually went up and did it is a huge win for you.

2. Just read this the other day, give your buddy a hundred bucks and tell him to give you 20 bucks each time you open a set, regardless of the outcome. If you only open 1 set you only get 20 bucks and he keeps the rest.

Like i said i feel you pal and I find myself in the same boat sometimes as well, those are just a couple of things to consider.

- Andrew Rocwell

Yeah, I've never got a girlfriend out of a bar. But then, I rarely get pulls or days 2's out of a bar either. It always works when I'm not even trying or sloppy drunk. I've gone out with 3 girls the first half of this week and have two more lined up tomorrow through online, though. That's enough to keep me busy. And if I burn out on this, I'll try out day game.