Hey guys,

First time posting here, I'm aware of the whole PUA community and such but have never really gotten into it myself. But now i seem to be facing the same problem every night and was hoping someone here could help me with it. I recently got in really good shape, from being, in really bad shape. Now i notice girls checking me out all the time, especially when at bars and clubs, usually they'll give me some visual clues (like staring, shaking their ass at me, smiling) really easy to read. Yet its not something im used to, i grew up a fat kid and am having trouble convincing myself that their actually into me despite all of my buddies constantly telling me to go 'hit on them.' Anyways, the situation that i seem to keep running into is this.

Girl dancing, usually with one or two other girls
Me dancing with a group with girls and guys
One or two of the girls are into me
Musics really too loud for any kind of long or complex opener
Girls eventually loose interest and go with some other guy

Now im just wondering if anyone has some tips of how to get my confidence up (besides drinking lol) and any kind of openers which might work in this situation besides just grabbing their ass and grinding on them, which im really not bold enough to pull off. Please advise.

- Pecs

Dance floor is not the place for verbal openers. Grab her ass and mash it on your crotch like you're grating a block of cheddar. You know this already and you are bold enough to do it. If you want to work in some verbal game, you'll have to lead her away from the dance floor to somewhere quieter or keep going until she wants to take a break. Stick with it and you'll probably find that you won't need verbal game at all. Verbal game is a step back from all-you-can-grope kino.