for me when i managed to open a girl i do arite.. i mean i usually don't run out of things to say. but when i c these openers i think.. do i say hi 1st? or do i approach n say the openers? usually i start off with a 'hey hows it going?'

Maggot:

Short answer: Don't. You should never try to build comfort with a girl before getting attraction; saying something like "how's it going" is just reminding her of all the guys she's rejected in her life. If you read an opener online or in a book or any sort of advice, deliver it exactly as you read it- in a confident, spontaneous way, as if it's completely natural to go up to a random stranger and ask them whether guys lie more or girls (don't use this one, it's way overused).

Just practice on random people, not intending to pick them up. Just to become comfortable with the idea.

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ooh i see now.. straight away use the openers instead of saying hi or hey 1st?
now i get it~ haha thanks 'theyreredhot'

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