this is for those guys who fear rejection or get nervous when a girl comes off really negative. this used to be a problem for me until last week when i got shut down by a three set... bad! i just laughed it off and went back to a friends bar where i just drank the rest of the night away. well this weekend i went out to another bar/club that i had never been to. i went out for a smoke and realized i was out of smokes. then i seen this chick and a couple friends lighting one up. i go over and just ask for a smoke... the best looking one looks at me and just starts sayin some mean shit so this time instead of walking off i went with it she would say one thing and i would make it funny eventually i had her friends laughing to the point of crying. then the girl i was picking on finally gives in i get a smoke and and a 30 min convo . later a dance and closed with a number all while babysitting my friends who had drank way too much. i wanted to share this story to help those who have the problem i had to get over it. i also welcome criticism and whatever else you may have.

so how exactly did u turn whatever she said into a joke ? what would be the first thing to tell her when she starts raging at you ?