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| Zadaaam | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 11:11 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Sat Jan 30, 2010 5:21 pm Posts: 22 | | I have a problem finding an optimal pick-up strategy in clubs. When I go to a club i usually spend there about 3-4 hours. I often manage to open like 2-3 girls but I mean when i open a girl for example 12pm and the bar closes 4 am, should i just try to keep constantly gaming her (chat, flirt, dance) or should i open her and then go somewhere else in the club, maybe talk to other people and come back to my target girl in like an hour? This is my biggest problem. I have no problem opening but i have huge problems taking it from there in clubs. Please tell me your advice on how you go about when you have opened a girl in a club.
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| Solo1 | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 12:33 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Oct 21, 2009 11:35 am Posts: 25 | | i would go for the K-close soon on, within the first 15mins preferably. Then you have an attachment to the girl. Makes the number and coming back later in the night to chat alot easier and less stalkerish.
If no luck with the k-close, calibrate and move on. There are plenty more thats the beauty of clubs!Also you'll be developing a fast k-close technique.
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| PUA Kenny | PostPosted: Fri Apr 09, 2010 12:40 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Apr 11, 2008 3:21 am Posts: 2124 Website: http://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com/ Yahoo Messenger: jomo_loc@yahoo.com Location: NYC | | This' what I do in that case(and I'd learned from club-game articles).
After I game the target a while and she's attracted,I roll out-leave.
Then I go bacc to her after a while.
What kills me about guys is that they get a dance from a girl and they want to hold on to her all night(lol).
They buy a girl a drink(which they shouldnt have done)then they feel like they own the girl so they over her all night.
Guys,that shit turns women off and its bad.
So,after I'd make a good impression on the target and she's 'ON',I then leave her!
No guys will ever think to leave at the high point.
I leave when things are at its peak;the target is ripe for the picking.
The girl isnt expecting that;so I do it.
If the impression was good,she'd be wanting me to return.
Then after a while,I'd return to her.
It was all calculated on my part(to leave & return).
I dont tell her,"Hey Jenny,Im going to the rest room and back".
I just leave(lol).I motion with my hand as if to say,give me a minute,I'll be bacc.
I dont know her,so Im not looking permission to go!
AFCs view that as being rude but I differ.I owe her nothing.
As I roll off,I ensure that Im in her perifery where she can see me being social & alpha with others.
I chat with few girls where the main target can see in order to build more SV & pre-selection.
Then I go bacc to original target and most of the time she'd become clingy and not wanting me to leave again.
So guys,stop acting like yall are glued to the target!!! _________________ Most active PUA blog in the community since 2009.
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| Romboldt | PostPosted: Sun Apr 11, 2010 2:22 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Apr 10, 2010 11:42 am Posts: 32 Location: Spruce Grove | | Yeah I can attest to the 'come back later' strategy, and I'm an inexperience AFC, lol.
A while back I was in a bar and came across a pair of girls dancing, and within moments of meeting I was in a HB sandwich (omg that was a good night). A little while later I bid them adieu to go top off my drink, an hour or so later when I made my rounds again they recognized me and cheered "there he is!" and we quickly resumed dancing. A guy nearby high-fived me.
From what I can gather, give 'em a taste. Enough to be interested but not enough to be satisfied, then leave for a while. Helps you avoid coming off as needy or clingy, and keeps them wanting more. ^_^
Unfortunately, being inexperienced as I am, I forgot to number-close. /shame _________________ The best things in life are those you earn.
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