| Hey guys ,
When I was 16 my parents sent me to an english teaching indorms school in the UK. When I was there I met alot of people from different countries (France , Spain , Italy, Germany , Korea, Japan, Israel).
I had the experience of my life befriending all the people there and getting to know each individual.
Now since I began my self exploitation in the world of pick up , I realised that using the same "frame" upon myself that I was using back when I was 16,it works like magic.
Here is what its all about; Im going to layout the A to Z in this one.
Step 1: Innerframe: Know who you are what makes you, are you a nice guy or a douchy person? Ask yourself what makes you who you are. The concept here is to know as a fact that you have value by being your own self.
Step 2:Innerframe to Outerframe: After knowing for a fact that you are a cool dude in your own way , its time to bring this out to the public. Whenever you see people walking by in the venue just say hello , thats it. Get used to saying Hello to everyone in the venue and make it as cheerfull as possible.
Step 3:Technique: Here are something you can use to help you build affiliation with the people around you:
1- Know everyones name by heart; Practice that and perfect it , nothing is more precious to a mans ear than his own name.
2-Build strong rapport with the guys first: Talking with the guys should not be a problem as long your friendly,here is the trick that helps you out:
You have to know that picking up girls and getting laid is something absolutely natural to all guys in the venue.THUS THEY ARE NO DIFFERENT FROM YOU. So if you do have a fear of approaching guys because they can sense a pickup coming along, you know what? they are no different than you are. The only reason they would not go with the frame of pickup is either because (they have a girlfriend/They dont want to look needy infront of you and thus caring about what you think/they are simply GAY"
3-After befriending a couple of sets here and there its time to merge the sets; merging sets is very easy its even easier when they have something in common (they come from the same place/having the same drunk/laughing at the same joke) if there is nothing in common you can simply tell them "Hey my group of friends over there are really fun come and Ill introduce you"
(To be continued )
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