So in work today I got kinda bored and put pen to paper with a few new openers.

1) How often do you think girls reject guys solely based on their looks?

I field tested this one on the train today and she answered, 'not often, I think girls tend to go more for personality'. I was feeling a little cocky, so I replied 'wow, that sucks. I totally reject girls all the time because of the way they look. Mine pretty much have to be perfect.'

Then we got into some discussion about her perfect guy and I started pointing out other guys on the train and seeing if that was her perfect guy.

I number closed but she lives on the other side of the country, which sucks.


I HAVEN'T TESTED THE NEXT FEW, BUT FEEL FREE IF YOU LIKE THEM:

2) Do you think men should only have manly hobbies or is like...knitting alright? Would you think less of a guy if he knit you a jumper for xmas?

3) Do you think bisexual people are greedy?

4) How much of a wedding do you reckon the groom should plan? As a man, I'm well aware that I get stuff wrong like...87% of the time and I'm a GOOD catch! I mean...would you trust this face?

5) What do you think the prettiest/best/worst/ugliest word in the English language is? (I guess it could be any language...but I speak English!)

6) I'm not so sure about this one, but I think delivered right it could go well::

Based on this very first impression, do you think you would trust me enough if I were to take you out on a date?

On the other hand, and this just popped in my head, you could flip it...

Based on this very first impression..do you think I would trust you enough to take you out on a date? What sort of aura do you think you give off?

Let me know whatcha think!

some of these are good others seem like they wouldn't be good because they are kind of direct. seem like some as well would backfire. for example your first opener if she was like yea I like guys that are such and such and u weren't all the following it would feel akward to even attempt number close... because u didn't fit the list...

My idea was, if she said that she did like guys who looked a certain way, I was going to call her totally shallow and neg her on that. And then go into my line about rejecting girls based on looks all the time.

Sometimes I love to just go in with a direct opener too. But you're probably right.

I shall have to refine these.

Cheers!

I meant more like she is like I like looks duh they have to have such like straight long hair black nail great smile great style... then from there calling her shallow and negging her seems like it wouldn't go so far... I like going for the more indirect method comes over more casual, doesn't automatically come off as overbearing or like yea he trying to just hit on me... so its confuses them which they love that shit... like one time I approach this chick and at the end of the approach she was like "I have to give you my number, your amazing I have no idea what it is about u but your not like other guys".... because I went in indirect, hit her with a challenging fun witty convosation, kinoed, it was like I forced her to qualify to me, and challenger he like I am hot as shit why didn't he try to hit on me... u always want shit u can't have...