I wasn't too sure where exactly I should post this thread, but here we go...

New to the game or having difficulty understanding it?
What is Game! Game is a religion -I'm anti-theist btw- set of rules put out there for people who can't or feel they can't find a way for themselves! PUA's are prophets, each with their own book and ways to show you the way to GOD (Girls Of Desire...... ooh how about that, I'm a genius! LOL). They have similiarities, but is that the only way you get to your goal? No, as there are people in this world, there are diff games and methods and routines!

Girls are just like us, bunch of individuals! Though however they have stuff in common which game works on it. Would it work on all? FUCK NO!

Not all HOT girls respond to Negs! many hot girls (HB9-10) are more self-councious than average girls as usually an average girl (HB7-8 ) gets more guys approaching them leading to make the hot girl feeling left out and wondering what is wrong with them! You need to analyse your target quick and come up with an idea of how she is! (watch her body language, watch her facial emotions, her intreactions with her friends and so on). -thats what I'm tryin to learn myself at this stage!-

For openers, what you hear as an opener on videos and shit is probably used by many out there and many girls have seen/heard it! The openers are JUST an example, its for you to get the hint and get creative! Thats when your game improves!

As for Confidance, body language is very handy but above all, you need to think to yourself what makes ya better than the thousands of guys on the street! Is it your job? Is it your body? Is it your personality? Is it your money? and etc.
Work on it, think about it and make yourself believe that YOU ARE AN EXCELLENT CATCH! Go out with that mentality, Aproach with that mentality and live with that mentality! Its all start from within.

Change your mentality from picking up to "having fun" and "enjoying your life". If you go out with that attitude, it sends good vibes around.

Game is not giving a quick answer. Thats what makes many dissapointed in it. You need to work on the whole package, not just your opener as soon you will run out of that and you will be drowned in an awkward silence! One of the ways to get you more openers and stuff to talk about is reading daily news! It gives somethng to discuss and argue and shows you actually DO GIVE A FUCK!

Never constantly agree with what she says! A girl will not hate you if you dont like her fav band, book, movie and as such! If she likes something and you actually don't, tell her and challenege her and discuss it and that will help you escalate from general conversation to DNM!

And for love of Holy Cow, Don't use game to abuse girls! Don't break them and make them feel used! Let them always remember you as one of the people who changed their life for better!

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You will reflect to others what you feel inside!

Good post. I think for newbies canned material and following a gaming structure is perfect, it takes away some of the anxiety and pressure they can follow a set pattern and know what is coming next. But the more you game and the more experience you have it goes without saying that you should be developing your own openers, stories and routines.

People forget to let nature have a part in running the game as well but that comes with experince and being able to tell when things are going to slow or more importantly too fast

Not sure what to say...

lmao Ur one the people I look up to in this forum, I appreciate if you tell me what you mean exactly brother

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You will reflect to others what you feel inside!

Well, first off, the Game is religion... There are enough religions in the world. I see what you mean but newbies dont. Im running a tough campain to get people here to think for themselves and not just blindly follow all advice they get without critically evaluate it first. There are way too many copycats out there.

I think your heart was in the right place when you wrote this post and I agree with much of what you say. You have seen past the initial problem of just mindlessly repeating routines. Still you have a long way to go before reaching perfection (as do I). You talk about bodylanguage as if it will be some kind of holy grail and bring joy to the world. Actually bodylanguage reflects how you feel inside. So if you learn to control it it will still be faking it until you make it. Instead of working on the inner game and let your bodylanguage flow naturally from that.

You are somewhere in between you have learned much young Skywalker but you are not a Jedi yet. So even though you say that the post is for newbies you are simplifying it too much and they will need more than what you write to understand it. It is not easy to write I know but newbies dont have a lot of the basic knowledge that more experienced people take for granted. Some of the things you say may be confusing for a newbie.

My comment was really mainly about the fact that the title suggest that you present a wholesome view on the game but in fact you very briefly touch a few concepts that are totally isolated from the other concepts (the way you write it). I also stared myself blind on the things that I believed was the great secrets when I was learning (still learning) so I know what its like. But the thing is that the learning process here is a series of realizations and all of them will seem like you hit the motherload at the time you learn it. You can not condense the game to a few concepts because they are all intertwined.

Yes, being an awesome guy is what its all about but on the other hand that is made up of bodylanguage etc etc etc. The attitude is made up of etc etc. The etc is made up of etc etc...

Ezo