| Ok, I got "Mystery Method" last week and just finished reading it for a second time (I'm hoping to have it finished a third time by thursday). There are two women I'm looking to test my new knowledge on. How would you approach these two women?
The first is a women who works the front desk at my local gym. She and this other guy, who I just started having spot me for bench press (I just startded dong 315lbs by the way), both work only tuesday/thursday mornings. I started shooting the shit and joking with her last week. I'm half Polish, so I made a couple "Oh, blame the Polish guy" and "Leave it to the Polish guy mess it up and.... (fill in the blank)". Nothing monumental, but I opened the dialogue with her.
Now, my only reservation with her is that I go to the gym at 6:00am, so I'm barely awake when she first sees me, and my hair is all mess up and up on end. I'm thinking that not seeing me in a flattering light early in the morning like that might not start me off on a good step in the right direction with her.
How do you think I should approach her? Should I bother?
The second is a woman I've known for quite some time. The last we've spoken was about 4 months ago before I moved to Maryland for my job. Now, we bumped into eachother at a local bar the day after my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me, so needless to say, I was mildly drunk.
But when we were talking, I know that I could've gotten with her, but neither of us really wanted to go there since I really wasn't in any mind set for another woman at the moment, and she didn't want to ruin any chances of my ex and I getting back together. But we're not, so Game On!
Anyway, I'm going home this upcoming weekend and we already arranged that we're meeting at the local bar when I get into town. Now, I really have no intentions on doing anything, I really don't care, but I figured that I might as well give it a shot and try.
We already exhanged numbers and she started texting me saturday night saying that I should be home so we (meaning us, as well as other people) are all going out and going back to her place, etc. We texted a LOT, some just shooting the shit, some jokingly flirting. I tried to neg her a little, and make a comment or two about how she's not my type or how we'd never work. She later commented about how "I would only be in it for the sex, which is a turn off for her". I actually never even used the work sex or hinted at it, She did, which I quickly pointed that out and reiterated the fact that I'm not interested.
I know I probably have a little bit of attracting to do, but I think a comfort level is already there, but it might be a friendship comfort level. How would I attract, build comfort, and then seduce a woman who might be thinking of me as a friend?
How would you guys approach these two women?
Any and all advice would be GREATLY appreciated.
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