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| Checkfigure1 | PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 1:38 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 09, 2009 10:12 pm Posts: 108 | | Do any of you guys have problems with classroom game?
I have traditionally been a shy person when it comes to talking in class. AA has been a huge problem for me and it makes things worse. I feel inferior when there are other guys in class that are that talk all the time and are the life of the party so to speak. It totally ruins my confidence.
Is there anything you guys can recommend to overcome shyness in class so I am able to socialize with people?
Thanks
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| Rap2010 | PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 4:18 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sat Jan 02, 2010 10:05 am Posts: 50 AOL: Wizarddsrap Location: Boston, MA | | yea I know what you're saying. I guess the best way is be friends with the guys so you don't actually feel like you're against them. But the question is... how do you do that? _________________ newborn feeling good!
"[One of] the biggest risk in your life is the risk you don't take" - some guy on MTV's Jersey Shore
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| Checkfigure1 | PostPosted: Fri Jan 29, 2010 5:36 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Mon Nov 09, 2009 10:12 pm Posts: 108 | | Good point Rap2010!
I don't have a problem acting confident. The problem comes when I run into people that seem to be really smart or know - it - alls. I grew up having a really low self esteem and encountering these type people make me feel inferior to them.
One thing I was thinking about doing was trying to lower the status of the competing males in class. Does anyone have a an idea of how to do that?
Thanks!
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| Vinchenzo | PostPosted: Mon Feb 01, 2010 5:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Tue Jul 28, 2009 3:10 pm Posts: 62 Yahoo Messenger: marinogaggini AOL: Ominuka Location: Detroit, MI | | You need to watch the movie, The Invention of Lying. It clearly showed me why lying is so important in life, specifically in social situaitons, gaming women, etc. Listen to what these morons are actually saying and you will find that their "smarts" are nothing more than reguritated BS.
Think of ways to make yourself appear better than them, "be smarter" than them and never give up or think they are bettter.
I'd confront them head-on. I'd piss them off so much they'd try to fight me probably. However, that's just who I am. The Alpha males always see me as competition for some reason...
In the end, just know that your work is more important than some girl in the class. If she is too focused on the AMOTG then game somewhere else I'd say. _________________ I'm not run of the mill, because it's from the mill I'm running...
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