| 1. thing that EVERYONE should know, is that, communication whit people is very little about the "verbal" communication, it's about the BODYLANGUAGE!. how you hold your posture, eye-contact etc.
2. when it comes to "THE MOMENT". it REALLY is more important to hold your posture, than the language you speak,
3. your opener is quite good, but it lacks, uniquenes, it may get your girl to talk, maybe, but, the subject is quite boring, and the "future of conversation" - is, not the best possible. talking about work, family,city etc. is "smallchat" and its good way to start conversation, but it wont raise any intrest in the girl
still, even a bad or a decent opener WILL work, if done well, whit charisma and bodylanguage. in the movie "spread" the main carachter says " still the best hit replic is " hey!" ....and guess what. IT REALLY is
p.s. this whas NOT to affend you, but in contrary, boost your selfesteem, and awarenes in sosial places.
good luck, and tell about the results
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