| Five Minutes To Total Fame
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Last night I met some people who changed my view of what is really possible for people. I realized, no matter what the fuck you’re doing right now, there are hidden opportunities that are within your scope. Let me explain. I realized that you can be doing 10 times better then what you’re currently pulling, in less time, and have more fun while doing it. Most people in the game are trying to do more of what they’re doing right now. They believe that if they do more of what they’re doing right now, they will succeed more. That is wrong! Let me explain... If you are spending 3 hours a night currently, say for 3 days a week, or whatever you’re spending, it would mean that to double your success you need to spend twice the amount of time. Now, I know that everyone disagrees and says that that’s wrong. That is not what you are supposed to do to double your success or even triple it. YET MOST PEOPLE ACT AS IF THEY DO NEED TO SPEND TWICE THE AMOUNT OF TIME!!!
This inevitably leads people to accept mediocrity!!!!!!! They get caught in a belief system that says that they’re not good enough to do it. How fucken SADDDD!!!!
Last night I was at a party with friends who are in the entertainment business. They have friends who do shows and sing, and one particular guy who I met had his house currently as down-deposit for funding from a bank for a movie he’s making. These guys were in the show business 4 real. I got invited to a party at their building (they had the party room all to themselves), because I am friends with one of their cousin. I am usually good conversation with the guys, so my friend mad e me tag along while we ditched 4 other friends who went to a club instead. There was everything from cocaine :D to really nice smelling marijuana at the party. I partook with caution...
To say the least, these guys were dynamic people. They were at least 20 times more turned on mentally, physically, etc, then the average boob you meet on the street. After spending about 5 minutes with them, i was already having a great time, and the tone for the whole night was set.
I realized that after meeting someone and spending just 5 minutes, you can create the basis for a relationship, like set a foundation, that will influence what follows.With chicks, it works the same way. I realized that not much was said, there was a lot more shown. I learned another lesson. Talk is not only cheap, it is inefficient. Talk is inefficient. Remember the term A picture is worth a thousand words? Well, its true. Yes you can talk and with tonality convey lots non-verbally. But I learned that you get a MULTIPLIED RESULT when you combine that with the content of what you say (relevant, intriguing), and what you show with your body language, how you look, etc...
I learned that the key to making success easy, and powerful, is to be acting in a way that combines all these things and conveys them at super speed. AFCs don’t get this. They are more concerned with mechanically memorizing lines, worried about themselves in almost all situations...
They are that way because they haven’t internalized any of the behaviours that lead to success. At moments they can become confident, but it usually never lasts, because they are running a loop in their heads that brings them right back to where they started, and thus they either get trapped in a lower level of success, or at a place where they’re not successful at all and negatively hallucinating a poor ass future.
I am going to write a follow-up post that is going to explain step by step what to do to achieve extraordinary presence as an entity in the life of someone, in just 5 minutes. I call this concept the 5 Minutes To Total Fame. That will be complete tomorrow, I am working on it. But please let me know what you think I have written thus far.
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