just thought of this today as an opener. I think it would work best if you have a wing and you look like your having a light disagreement then go into your selected set and ask. "Excuse me but if you won a million dollars or became a millionaire would you maybe think that anyone who tried to be your friend only wanted to be your friend becasue of your money?" likewise you can continue it with saying that you could just act poor and be rich blah blah blah. I just popped into my head as an opener any addition you think would be good on there or change, id like to hear. (it also lets her imagination go as to why your asking her this)