Im a real beginner. Im a confident guy who can dance to the beat in clubs and everything. I can move and dance with girls too, but the issue im having is...well were dancing and looking at each and smiling and like singing the lyrics to the song thats on and everything but i dont know what opener i should whisper in her ears and where to go on from there to kiss-close.
Im going out again in a day or two with some friends and some hot girls will be coming with us hence i wanna know what to do when im dancing with them and etc.

im going out tomorow night, and girls will be there that my mates will know and they will know who i am anyway. i jus need somebody to instruct me on when im dancing with her and were both looking at each other and smiling and etc, what should i do exactly from there??
im pretty much up for anything becuase i am a confident guy, jus get a bit confused on what to say or do at times and panic and the whole thing is gone.

A nice neg I've used several times to open when on a dancefloor is to lean in, as if whispering a sensual secret and say "you're really not a very good dancer" with "considering how hot you are" as an optional extra. Then stand back with a huge cheeky grin on your face.

Then, they will (unless they take it too seriously and get offended) often try to prove you wrong.

It is also easy to open by making a comment about the music, or about someone else on the dancefloor.

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haha

LOL @ "(unless they take it seriously and get offended)".

greetz

Bucc

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If some guy is trying to dance with her that she is obviously not into, I lean in and say something like "We should hook you two up" Pointing to her and the other guy. Obviously you must have a smile to show youre joking. She will be like NOOO and dance with you.

Or just go up to a girl and simply ask "Do you wanna dance?" With a big smile on your face. Most girls like a guy in a club that is respectful and doesn't just go up to girls and start grinding.

If you aren't on the dance floor and see a girl or group of girls, go up and ask why they aren't dancing. They will say blah blah blah and if a girl asks why? Reply with because I want to dance with you.

to get a girl to dance in a club, i really just go out and ask her to dance if we are next to people dancing, smile and act casual about it. in the middle of dancing i tend to say something funny to get her to laugh. sometimes i point out a guy dancing weird, or i say "That guy SO looks like your type" just a small comment. that can lead to a kiss close. but also many times there were no need for words, we are grinding and i spin her around to face me then away from me a few times to mix it up and add sexual tension when she is facing me ( get close to her, look her in the eye, smile, ect..). then i do it after a few times maybe when a really good song come on (personal favorite for good dancing, Notorious Big-Hypnotize, not to slow but still classy and sexy ha) i will turn her around to face me and just get in the moment, grab her neck maybe, move my hands. see how she reacts then just look at her and give her a gentle kiss and see how she reacts. for the most part she will either smile and like it, or kiss you back. this type of stuff involves alotta good non verbal work, but can have the same effect or better as talking at all

if you have the chance, try it it might work for you it works for me all the time
mR.e

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